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[Anonymous]

I don't know how to say it but i met this guy on a dating site (I’ll tell some of his personality traits he is narcissist, self obsessed sometimes weird) but i kinda like him but when i first met him he told me not to trust him but I thought he was joking about the trust thing but also few days later i saw him with another girl and when i asked him he said that she is just a friend like me and he does need to give an explanation to me which kinda hurted me because few days ago after our first meet he told me to date him but not be serious for him I’m so confused like sometimes he also protects me from the guys over here because im
New to this place. But for the past few days we are not having good conversation because maybe he’s seeing someone else or I don't know but i wanna be w him…. can you please help me out with this

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1 y

Just the update he lives just across my house

[IamAnn]

I think he means that... his really not serious and being honest with that statement. He protects u coz u are his responsibility wen with him. Thats all I can say... thus guy knows exactly what he wants.

[Asker]

Yeah he is not that serious but also i just don’t know i want him to be w me… can u share some tips?

[IamAnn]

I think you should not waste time on him...
Move on and accept the fact coz his not serious.

[Avicenna]

Why do you waste your time on this person? Move on!

[In_Trance]

End it now

[Guy13]

It sounds like lots of trouble to me...

[Asker]

Like how i mean he says he is bad and sometimes we went out for the first time he was like how do you trust me and come out like this it was past middle night

[Guy13]

You said he said, "don't trust me"... what more do you need?

[RuthlessAggression]

date sites are trash. go out

[Asker]

Ik but i kinda like him now and it sucks

[RuthlessAggression]

then remove him from your life. I don't mean murder, but, i do mean, stop associating with him