My date called both of us "two fat cats" ?

[Anonymous]

I am 5'3 - 138 lbs. I have belly fat.
My date (we are on very early state on dating) and I were hanging and eating McDonalds at 3am at his place. He said something like "Two fat cats are eating mcdonalds"

Should I get offended?

[Thatbaldguy]

If it offended you, it offended you. If you like this person you should at least discuss this with him and tell him how it made you fell. Otherwise he will think that comments like that are acceptable.

[Asker]

It did offend me yes. But doesn't it prove he doesn't think I'm hot or beautiful and he'll chase other women who are not "fat cat"

[Thatbaldguy]

Not necessarily. He may have meant it in a cute way. And if you don’t tell him you didn’t find it cute he may continue to say such things thinking you’re fine with it.

[Mitt15]

No need to get offended , he might just be kidding , boys tend to make a bit of fun , even you can call him fat or thin as per your chance 😜

[Asker]

He is 38 year old grown man. I really got upset

[Mitt15]

It's Ok , even I have seen 50y/o saying fat to her wife , in a humorous way

[Asker]

to his "wife" we just hung out for a couple times.

[Mitt15]

If I was at your place , i would mind , i would also tease him , if he gets offended then it's a common issue and both can address on 3 or 4 date

[Birdlegs]

No it was a joke. Also eating McDonald’s at 3am for a date does warrant being called a fat cat in my opinion

[Anonymous]

Well, you are over weight.

[Asker]

I know I am. I didn't ask "Am I overweight" I asked "Should I get upset of his behavior"

[Asker]

You should learn how to read LOL