Guy A and I met on a dating app.
We started hanging almost everyday for 2 months.
At first he said let’s just get to know each other and friends with benefits and see where it leads to.
No problem so that’s what I thought it was
He started getting kinda jealous, said okay we are not together but are exclusive and I’m “his”.
No meeting , texting or seeing anyone else
He started making me gifts , always invited me out , treated me like a real gentleman to the point where I start to get feelings.
he starts talking about a relationship and I plan on doing a different job where i would be gone for 6-8 months and might end up relocating.
I have no car so he als eats goes beyond and above for me , drives me around, helps me move and what not.
We start meeting each other’s friends, especially mine cause he don’t have much.
We go to parties together and go out and just have a good time but tells me we are just friends.
One day he opens up about , he don’t want me to take the job because he wants me around him and he don’t want to do long distance.
I told him I appreciate that but he lowkey confuses me. Now he is talking about a relationship again and he does all those nice things for me and I don’t understand what he wants. I know he likes me , always stays overnight and one day it’s like we are just f king and the next day he talks about a relationship.
That night we went to a party and a friend tells us how good we are for each other and really fit well together. My drunk ass told him to he lowkey just wants to fuck he doesn’t like me like that. He lost it we had an argument.
I told him I’m just confused and we either do the friends with benefits or get to know each other but it seems whenever it’s convenient for him we are together and when he doesn't want to commit we are just friends. I would like him to be clear.
After the party we had fight haven’t talked in a week. Should I text him? I miss him honestly
We started hanging almost everyday for 2 months.
At first he said let’s just get to know each other and friends with benefits and see where it leads to.
No problem so that’s what I thought it was
He started getting kinda jealous, said okay we are not together but are exclusive and I’m “his”.
No meeting , texting or seeing anyone else
He started making me gifts , always invited me out , treated me like a real gentleman to the point where I start to get feelings.
he starts talking about a relationship and I plan on doing a different job where i would be gone for 6-8 months and might end up relocating.
I have no car so he als eats goes beyond and above for me , drives me around, helps me move and what not.
We start meeting each other’s friends, especially mine cause he don’t have much.
We go to parties together and go out and just have a good time but tells me we are just friends.
One day he opens up about , he don’t want me to take the job because he wants me around him and he don’t want to do long distance.
I told him I appreciate that but he lowkey confuses me. Now he is talking about a relationship again and he does all those nice things for me and I don’t understand what he wants. I know he likes me , always stays overnight and one day it’s like we are just f king and the next day he talks about a relationship.
That night we went to a party and a friend tells us how good we are for each other and really fit well together. My drunk ass told him to he lowkey just wants to fuck he doesn’t like me like that. He lost it we had an argument.
I told him I’m just confused and we either do the friends with benefits or get to know each other but it seems whenever it’s convenient for him we are together and when he doesn't want to commit we are just friends. I would like him to be clear.
After the party we had fight haven’t talked in a week. Should I text him? I miss him honestly
