Is it a bad idea to ask your partner to remind to do something?

At his house there's only one side table so I put my retainers there as we were going to have sex.
I asked him to remind me to put them on, mostly because it would be dark they're on his side and I may get sleepy and I knew he was going to reach for his phone.
He reached for his phone to charge it but didn't tell me about my retainers.

When he came to mine he offered to pack the food away. But it was still hot. When he returned he asked me where the tupperware was. He packed his food away and left mine on the side.

When he went to get himself a drink he asked me if I wanted any ice cream I said no.
He asked me what draw it was in in the freezer. I told him the 3rd one down.
When I returned to the kitchen in the morning he left it out to defrost.

I was incredibly upset by all of this.
Especially because he's asked me to attend events with him, get him specific things for breakfast and cook him a particular meal.
And I didn't hesitate.
If I ask him he does this.
Is it a bad idea to ask your partner to remind to do something?
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