He’s been staring at me after he found out I had a crush on him, why is that?

MaryPatel
So there is this guy I used to have a crush on a couple years ago around year 7 and he also knew I liked him.

I knew he didn't like me and I stopped having a crush on him near the beginning of year 8, and no exaggeration…. but he has literally been staring at me for like 5 years!

I know some people may be like "are you sure he was staring at you?", "is it all in your head?” And yes I am certainly sure because this has been an ongoing thing for too long now for it to all just be in my head. I had a friend who always use to point it out but she left at the
end of year 8.

The guy and I would talk sometimes as one of my friends is friends with his friend group. Whenever we spoke it would be kind of awkward and there would be some
awkward laughs here and there.

Strange thing though is that whenever we spoke he would look straight at me when talking which kind of made me timid. He has a very intense stare, I can't really explain but it can make a girl go weak. Not to mention, but he is very good looking too which doesn't help lol. (I didn't have a crush on him by the way throughout year 8 to 11)

He would be playful sometimes too by play fighting by punching me (in a joking way)
One time he randomly popped up to my Snapchat story and randomly said "shush" and we had a mini conversation after that.

Fast forward to college and things are still the same and he still looks at me without speaking to me or anything.

Honestly, his staring low-key makes me uncomfortable but I'm not going to go up to him and ask why. I feel like he knows it makes me feel timid as I look away first and he continues but it's just frustrating cause I can't concentrate in class.

I just don't understand how me having a past crush on him would all of a sudden make him start staring at me?

I knew for a fact he didn't like me, he wasn't very nice tbh (which is why I stopped liking him) until later on.
He’s been staring at me after he found out I had a crush on him, why is that?
5 Opinion