Is it best to keep it light when you first message a guy?

[Anonymous]

he responds very fast but I don't want to over do it

[Cocochoh]

Just text. Once you see it, reply. These I don't want too look desperate, oh I don't want come off as-
Dude, just text. Drop those filtered thoughts.
Just text him back soon as you see it.

Don't act busy, don't try wait for no reason. Cause karma is bitch once you find a guy and he does same if not worse.

[Asker]

I've replied within good time about 10mins I was doing it while doing housework and getting work clothes ready

[Cocochoh]

Alright, tha make since. You was actually busy before hand. By God your keeper. Cause some of them, I tell you. Make you wait for 0 reason for nother text.

[Asker]

So dumb it was me that started the messaging first sometimes you gotta go after the boys you like

[spartan55]

It's best not to message a guy at all and talk to him. If you are relying strictly on messaging you may as well forget it.

[Jamie05rhs]

What do you mean by "keep it light"? If you mean make small talk and beat around the bush, then no. Most guys appreciate it when you get straight to the point.

[Ironic_Method]

I prefer them overdoing it.