Have you tried shaving your cleavage?
But, seriously, folks. I have never seen or met you so, I have no way of knowing what could be putting them of. Maybe you've got GGS:gorgeous girl syndrome. It happens all the time!! Guys see a FANTASTICALLY gorgeous girl but never bother to approach her because, as she's so incredibly pretty, he thinks she MUST already HAVE several boyfriends and more waiting for their turn to date her, which means, there's no point in him even trying because she'll NEVER go out with him so, he just doesn't bother. Consequently, most guys think that way and she ends up alone and wondering why or if she's really ugly!
is it not a thing that good looking people get approached less because most guy's might consider a girl to be out of his league or already taken?
I'd consider myself to be a fairly good looking bloke & i definitely see this happening with guy's, i rarely get approached by a girl and i'm the better looking guy in my group of friends, my last girlfriend told me that girls would look at me, but i never seem catch them,
aren't girls better at using peripheral vision or something?
and maybe you can tell me what percentage is given to a guys looks when looking to date?
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Give a man some signals. Let him know SOMETHING that you want him to approach!
Four days ago, a GAG user posted this video. I'm going to steal it and use it again here.
Taking a passive approach won't raise your odds of being noticed. Guys get tired of rejection, so they tend to approach those who appear approachable and show some interest. Comment on things they say or do, though avoid complimenting them on their looks (girls are much more likely to like that than guys).
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Not very good looking
Way too good looking so unreproachable
You wear way too much fake things or use way too much makeup. Which at least for me is a turnoff. Or you dress or generally give the appearance of being crazy or more trouble then you are worth.
Give obvious hints you're interested. Tap the guy on his shoulder to initiate a conversation. If the conversation goes well then afterwards ask for his number. Go from there 👍. Waiting and hoping forever for guys to approach you will only be a coincidence to work. If you want him, show it.
Maybe you don't look approachable?
Maybe you intimidate them?
Or maybe they find you boring?
Could be a number of reasons without knowing you it's hard to say really.
Flirt with them in a subtle way, boost their ego with compliments etc, you will find guys approaching you more then.
you sound young so time is on your side try to wear something that makes you look sexy and see if that changes things
Maybe you are so hot you intimate them? I have seem this before..
It’s okay, guys don’t approach me either
Keep doing the approaching yourself. It's 2022.
You're emotionally unavailable. You need to give e guys a reason to approach you.
because your Anonymous to us!!!
Maybe you don't do eye contact?
Didn't work, why?
What happened?
Must be something you're saying or doing (or not)
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