What would cause a guy to have an affair for the 1st time in 18 years, when he's never even looked at another girl?

[Anonymous]

This guy has never had an affair in 18 years and is best friends with his wife. He doesn't even admire other women around his wife. So why would he suddenly want to sleep with one particular person? he's admitted he's missed her, he acts almost possesive around the other girl if she talks to anyone else, but on the other hand he picks on this chick all the time and refuses to talk to her about anything having to do with his personal life. He tries REALLY hard to play it cool. So, why start things with this chick at all?

He still most likely loves his wife. He's looking for some fun

He made the mistake of falling for two women. He loves the new chick AND his wife

there's a slight chance he might actually leave his wife. Maybe.

[slatyb]

He may be feeling that he settled because it felt better than being alone. Or maybe they just fell into each other without really knowing themselves or what they wanted. She shouldn’t date him until he’s taken action to end his marriage. “Ask me what you are single. I don’t date married men.”

[Guy13]

Guy like this seems to love hard or lying about other women. It seems that he can have sincere feelings for both...

[WhitneySnow]

I voted A. Except that I don’t this guy would actually do anything with the new girl even if he wants to cause he’s too attached to his wife. It’s just a fantasy for him. Sorry girl.

[r4nd0mus3r]

he probably loves both. doesn't make it right of course

[Anonymous]

He's got issues!
Is this chick considerably younger?

[Asker]

She's maybe 5 or 6 years younger

[Anonymous]

Is he by any chance, a celebrity of some sort?

[RuthlessAggression]

You may just not have noticed the signs