How mch of a turn off is it to find out that the guy you like never had a relationship? Is that strange at my age?

[poneglyphs]

The older I get the less people I interact with and less opportunities I have to date. Is that also a common problem with you? 🤔

How often do you get date's or find people who will date you?

[Anonymous]

At your age? Nah. If you were past like 35 I think I would start questioning if something is wrong with you, just because most people have gotten their fair share of opportunities by then. I met my current boyfriend when I was 16, so I haven't really "dated" in that sense of the word.

[ElGato31]

Depends on the reason. If he didn't have a relationship but slept around, then yes, massive turn off as he has some issues he needs to work on first.

If he was just shy, busy, or something else that prevented him to form meaningful connections, then it is probably acceptable.

[poneglyphs]

What about just being rejected a lot and accumulating insecurities because of it 😕

[ElGato31]

Without knowing anything about you, if someone is rejected a lot, that again signals something is off. Either he picks the wrong girls consantly-unrealistic expectations- or the way he behaves, his vibe is weird, that means he needs to do some work. In general.

[RealMarek]

It raises a flag for some people but not for others. Some people view only having had one relationship as a red flag too. No need to overthink it. If someone isn’t interested in you because of that, she’s not the woman for you and you just move on.

[exitseven]

Yes it is strange. And the later it gets, the later it gets.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Nikki1989]

It does raise a lot of questions.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, yeah like what and is that necessarily a bad thing?

[moviedude714]

More common than people think