Is it true I will have to make all the moves with a quiet guy?

[Anonymous]

[RedStealthOperative]

Maybe at first you will have to put in a lot of effort, but when you both have some momentum going, and he learns your likes and dislikes, he might be more initiating.
You know what they say about the quiet ones, though... Quiet on the outside, freaky on the inside.

[Asker]

What kind of freaky

[RedStealthOperative]

I'm thinking more in a kinky way, honestly, but it could be more than just that kind of freaky with him.

[Asker]

🤣🤣 oh god ill find out

[RedStealthOperative]

Lol!

[Jamie05rhs]

No; not necessarily. You just have to make enough of an effort to "get" him. Once you have his attention, and once he knows where you stand and what you want (because you've explained it to him clearly), then you will "have" him. And he can lead from there. (... As long as you let him. If you shut him down, then he will retreat and go back in his cave. And you'll have to start all over again.)

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[ronaldo75]

Yes, plus you're older. If you really want a quiet guy you're going to have to make the first few moves, or leave him alone. Quiet guys make really good partners so if you're into playing games and playing hard to get or cat-and-mouse bullshit go play them with a more ordinary guy.

[Asker]

I'm not playing hard to get at all. I'm just slowly getting to know him. I said he was cool and he said the same back to me. I only just started talking to him

[clampfan101]

Helping build his confidence will help him make more and more moves himself. Just give him a chance.

[Asker]

So far I've gave him some compliments

[Jamie05rhs]

"So far I've gave him some compliments". Lol. ... Baby steps, I guess?

[driven159]

yes, but once he is comfortable with you and gains confidence then he will open up if not then you have a guy that won't stray because he is too quiet to chase women

[Keepitreal007]

No. Think of it as a form of playing. Once you awaken the lion inside him look out!!

[boggboss]

Pretty much all to most

[Asker]

I said he was cool and he said the same back

[boggboss]

OK so?

[Asker]

Good start so far. Should I still keep it light because I don't want to come across as a girl who has no life or clingy

[boggboss]

If thats what u want fair enough but u would say cool is extremely light when it comes to making moves

[Asker]

How should I make the next move then

[boggboss]

I dono complement his looks 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

I'll try get on that for sure

[HelloSofi97]

Yeah

[Asker]

I don't know where to start lol

[HelloSofi97]

Talk to him and get him comfortable. Eventually he’ll start reaching out to you on his own. Once that comfort is built…mention an outing and if he accepts…great. If he doesn’t accept or gives you some lame excuse, walk away. Even the shyest of men are capable of demonstrating interest.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree; an outing is a good idea.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes you will until he gets use to you

[Anonymous]

only until he warms up to you