My ex said that he " will never hurt or mistreat me intentionally". Does it mean he still loves me?

[Deimy]

[Bruhaaaa]

Well you can care for someone but not love them romantically. There’s a possibility he does care for you and wouldn’t want to intentionally hurt you or play with you heart which is probably why the relationship ended because you two ( or you or him) didn’t love each other enough.

[Deimy]

He said that he does not know when things will get back to normal and he will feel safe with me again... does it mean he wants to get back together? He send me mixed signals cause before he said that " he is totally sentimentally off" . It is hard to talk with him cause he always tired after work

[Bruhaaaa]

Well I am not 100% sure what’s he's going through but maybe she’s he’s not emotionally or mentally ready for a relationship with if he wants to be serious w you. And by safe wydm by that did you hurt him before?

[Deimy]

He thought that I did not love him and kept these thoughts by himself but I shew my love. For this thought he said " he destroyed his feelings" and was terrible hurted and still is but I said how I love him and this is not true but we are long distance.. I plan to come visit the country where he lives

[whereismyjohnny]

I think it's more about him having respect for you and what you two had.

[LazerBean]

No lmao not hurting someone intentionally is just basic respect.

[Britchie]

Not necessarily but he cares about your wellbeing.

[Deimy]

He said that he does not know when things will get back to normal and he will feel safe with me again... does it mean he wants to get back together?

[Britchie]

I wonder what he means by feeling safe. Did you pull a knife on him or is he just worried the relationship will fail again? It is a weak thing to say if you aren't actually a physical threat to him. He probably misses being with you when you are happy.

[Deimy]

He said that he run away from conflicts and that I am doing conflicts

[Britchie]

I can tell that you still really love him and want to be happy with him. I think the problem is your vibe is too low too often. I can't know for sure, but you are probably draining him emotionally. Try to keep the vibe light and playful. Smile and have fun with him. If you are feeling insecure and unsure about everything take a moment to recenter yourself and focus on what you want. Remember to be a positive aspect of his life and not someone who will be a source of frustration, anxiety, guilt, and resentment.

[boggboss]

Nope