Does it necessarily mean he is a player?

[Reemaa]

If a guy talks to me about sex etc. does it meab he doesn't love me?

Yes, if a guy talks about sex, he is a player

No, he can be in love with you and talks about sex

[kylee2437]

Depends on your relationship. If you two are in the talking stage and don’t have much chemistry, it can definitely be an indicator that he is a player. If he is always talking about sex/ only seems to concentrate on the convo when it’s about sex, then he’s definitely a player

[A_stranger]

If it's only about sex then yeah it's just desperation.
But if there is care and affection with it then you can call it love but be sure it could be just mere attraction you both are having.

[spartan55]

None of these things cause the other... smh where do you girls get these wild ideas?

[nawtee_me]

It depends on the conversation. I talk to female friends about sex but it is just conversation.

[Preeti161101]

Both are possible