I am in my mid 30s and he is in his mid 40s. We were close a long time ago and were in a situationship. We saw each other a few years ago and then COVID happened. He said, I was looking better than the last time he saw me. He kept trying to fish for compliments. Kept talking about a good restaurant he likes , not sure if he was hinting to go there or he was expressing his interest in it. Spoke about a few things we will do together, such as should ride his motorcycle with him. And he has a spare bedroom and whoever wants to sleep over, can.
I messaged him and said, I hope our friendship can continue and see him more often. And if there is a little sexual chemistry then go for it. He read the message and didn’t reply. He might of been at work but does take a while to reply. I then messaged and said, be happy we will always be good friends as you said. . I’m a little confused as we were flirty in texts before meeting up.
he did say that he doesn’t want to be like those guys at clubs picking up girls.
he is not gay and not in a relationship.
