Seeing female friends?

[EveLYN22]

The guy I am seeing, he shows up late all the time. On our first date, he was late even though he said he would be at uni already. Then he was late again on our 2nd date and I actually saw him sitting and talking with a guy and then he was walking so slowly when coming to see me.

Only when he wants sex, he comes to my house quickly.

However, I noticed that he had planned to meet his best friends girlfriend and he was at uni 20 minutes before they had decided to meet. He was already sitting outside and waiting for her and constantly on the phone. Then when she texted him, he went to the bus stop to receive her and they walked back together.

With his friends, he's always leaving early and on time. But with women he wants to date or have a fling with, he intentionally turns up late.

What's his issue

[Xoxocutekitty]

You're letting this user take advantage of you by putting up with his subpar behavior.

he's treating you like an option and yet you are still clinging to him like he is worth anything. Dump him and move on because no guy that values you would put himself in a place to make you doubt in the first place.

You see his potential for others but for you he Is a bare minimum guy. He won't change and it's not your job to make him see your worth.

[EveLYN22]

But why does he do this with women he goes on dates with?
He leaves them on read, turns up late, only wants sex and shows no interest in her personality etc

But for other women friends like the friends girlfriend, he went to the bus stop to receive her, was patting her shoulder and was talking a lot.

With me he's vague, doesn't tell much about himself but he goes on weekend and trips for sex with me

[Iron_Man]

You just ran into a player bad mistake move on This case is a case of lesson learned

[EveLYN22]

Then why does he want to date or sleep with me? If I'm not a priority?

[Iron_Man]

Most men won't refuse sex they crave it they need it they have to get it from any female that offers it it's like a trophy to them unfortunately

[Anonymous]

Hey, two can play that game, so why not date other guys?

[EveLYN22]

What do you mean? Why is he prioritizing his female friends and treating other women badly?

[Guy13]

Don't late and demanding irritate you to death !!!

[Guy13]

Have you tried saying No any of those times he visits hurriedly as you described. Do you think some NO will make him more attentive?

[joeldalton]

You’re not a priority.

[EveLYN22]

What do you mean? WHT is he prioritizing his female friends and treating other women badly?

[Wise4myage]

No idea, but its a red flag for sure.

[joeldalton]

What part lost you? You’re not a priority to him. Other people are.

[EveLYN22]

Then why does he want to date or sleep with me?

[Wise4myage]

He's probably a man whore.

[EveLYN22]

@Wise4myage so how come he has female friends when he thinks so low of them?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he enjoys using them?

[joeldalton]

Because you have a pussy

[EveLYN22]

So do they? They are also girls

[joeldalton]

But you're giving yours up.

[EveLYN22]

But we spent weekends and holidays together?

[joeldalton]

ok. Well then everything sounds hunky dory.

[EveLYN22]

What do you mean?

[joeldalton]

Well everything must be fine if he's taking you out on trips and weekends.

[EveLYN22]

He's not taking me out. We just have sex on these trips

[joeldalton]

What else do you want me to say? I've made it crystal clear to you that he's happy to have sex with you, but otherwise you're not a priority.

[EveLYN22]

But why does he do this with women he goes on dates with?
He leaves them on read, turns up late, only wants sex and shows no interest in her personality etc

But for other women friends like the friends girlfriend, he went to the bus stop to receive her, was patting her shoulder and was talking a lot.

With me he's vague, doesn't tell much about himself but he goes on weekend and trips for sex with me

[joeldalton]

Because once he gets you the thrill of the hunt is over.

[EveLYN22]

So what kind of girl will this guy even respect? Because he treats his women friends very well but not the ones he hooks up with or dates

[joeldalton]

Some girl who holds back on him. Give him the bare minimum to keep him on the hunt.

[EveLYN22]

So you think he will like someone who won't have sex with him? Won't he get bored ande move on?

[joeldalton]

I don't know. I don't know him.

[EveLYN22]

You said itself that someone who won't give in?

[In_Trance]

no issue; he's bangin other girls.