Girls, Do you like when a guy shows vulnerability?

[Anonymous]

[ccs884]

yes. i think a man (and anyone in general) who is strong enough to actually show emotion is attractive. no one needs to be strong all the time. it sucks that there is a stereotype that all men who experience vulnerability are weak, it’s just not true.

[Asker]

Thanks I got hurt during a martial arts class where the girl caught me with a hard shot and it was kinda embarrassing Because she got me with a groin kick

[ccs884]

ofc that’s gonna be painful, i would totally expect for u to be hurt. j bc your male, it doesn’t mean you can’t feel pain. don’t be embarrassed about it, it’s completely fine.

[Asker]

Yeah but it was embarrassing because she was a lot older than me so her kick shouldn’t take me down

[ccs884]

a kick is a kick, it doesn’t matter the age or gender of the person who struck you, it’s gonna be painful to some degree. anyone who can’t understand that, is pretty simpleminded.

[Asker]

True, but I feel like it doesn’t look good when a man drops to the floor holding his balls

[ccs884]

i’ll admit that its a tad funny, but if u can laugh about it too there’s no reason to be embarrassed. i mean, what do u expect to happen when u get kicked in the balls?

[Asker]

Why do girls sometimes laugh when we get hit there

What reaction do you expect?

[ccs884]

well i told u what i expected would happen. i have laughed when my friends have gotten in similar situations before, but only when they were really cocky about it before hand, sometimes it’s nice to be taken down a peg lol. dw about it, no one is gonna think to much about it. i went through a really embarrassing dance recital when i was younger where some girl stepped on my tap shoe and i ended up crying in front of everyone on stage (she almost broke my toe) at the time it made me upset but now i j look back and laugh. j have a good attitude about it.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true, it’s just different because she hit me manliest area

[1GoldTwins]

I melt when I see it. If someone who I know for a long time finally shows that side of his. It makes me so happy, he feels that comfortable around me.

[Asker]

I got hurt during a martial arts class where the girl caught me with a hard shot and it was kinda embarrassing Because she got me with a groin kick

[1GoldTwins]

And here I thought it was about emotions...

[Anonymous]

Depends on the circumstance. In a mature way yes,

[Asker]

I got hurt during a martial arts class where the girl caught me with a hard shot and it was kinda embarrassing

[Opinion Owner]

Seems legit, not sure why anyone should make you feel that it’s not ok. Hope you feel better soon

[Asker]

Well I’m really competitive and I’m just worried I looked bad getting taken down by her hit

[Opinion Owner]

No it would look bad you are stormed out and started shouting at her. You learned you have a blind spot and I doubt you will allow her to pull the same move again

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true, have you ever done martial arts?

[Opinion Owner]

Capoeira But not for a while

[Asker]

Have you heard of Krav Maga?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. My mum used to do it

[Asker]

I just started doing it this month, I joined a higher level class since I’ve done boxing and Muay Thai but this is much more brutal lol

[Asker]

The woman I got paired against was also more than double my age

[Opinion Owner]

You are new, best the get these out of the way now

[Asker]

Yeah good point, it’s just an embarrassing way to start the class, in that drill, I was the “attacker” and had to start grabbing her from behind in a rear bear hug, she stomped on my foot and then delivered a back heel kick which nailed me right in the cup

[Asker]

To make it worse, I didn’t take the kick very well :(

[Asker]

Did you ever see a guy take one of those shots in your class?

[ComradeCurze]

No. You're a man, not a toddler.

[Asker]

I got hurt during a martial arts class where the girl caught me with a hard shot and it was kinda embarrassing

[Anonmehahaha]

Yesss

[Asker]

Thanks I got hurt during a martial arts class where the girl caught me with a hard shot and it was kinda embarrassing Because she got me with a groin kick

[Anonmehahaha]

Bro you could have not texted the same thing under every comment