Do girls find it attractive when a guy shows his vulnerability to them?

[theriver21]

Do girls find it attractive when a guy shows his vulnerability and can be his non-macho self around them?

Whether it’s a personal issue/emotional struggle or a situation that’s burning in their mind.

I had been talking to a girl that I like and feel as though she likes me, about a deep personal issue that she had talked about with me before. It’d been awhile since we had talked and I kept thinking “man you look like a wus”. But I was told girls really like vulnerability to be shown. Why is that?

[Anonymous]

I’d like to know too. I think it depends. If a guys crying because he lost a friend or family member, I think she’d be okay with him showing how feels. But if he’s crying because he lost his job or there’s a lot of pressure on him, I think she’d lose interest in him. I think it’s because she expects the man to lead and take the stress and pressure off of her.

[theriver21]

Yeah, it was a deep personal issue but I think want close to crying. It was one of those things about let’s say your mom and you wouldn’t tell everyone but her. So my thinking has been they like to see you being able to open up, trust them with your either insecurity or problem.

[theriver21]

I wasn’t close to crying at all*

[Opinion Owner]

@snowgirl123 says it helps a woman fall in love with you. But I’m sure how true that’d be. I’m sensitive and every time I showed vulnerability, most people would avoid me. It helps sometimes because the person knows you’re being real with them and everyone likes someone who is honest. Most people would mock me for it. People like to be around people who are having a blast; people don’t want to be around who is in pain. That’s just the way humans are, not just women.

[Opinion Owner]

But I hope @snowgirl123 is right though.

[scott04sa22]

The women I’m speaking likes my Vulnerable talks but don’t over do it.

[snowgirl123]

this is an extremely powerful tool to make a woman be in love with you. women love men to be sensitive. this does not make you feminine. it is also a great opportunity to bond.

[Anonymous]

In the beginning I don’t think that looks attractive but once they know you for a while then I’ll be OK

[In_Trance]

depends what it is