Guys, Do men always keep their options open?

[Sebby84]

Iv been seeing a guy for 4 months but he's still actively on tinder? And i only know this as i unpaused my own account to see if he was still on it.

Like we have been getting on great having a great time seeing him around twice a week he's affectionate loving attentive and has never blown hot or cold to make me ever think he was still looking elsewhere or that things werent progressing…. i seen us moving to a relationship soon.

[Pegases]

Four months isn't a long time. Especially in today's day and age of dating, both men and women alike are engaging in toxic behavior. And women, have more options than men. So it will be tough for a man to trust a woman after just four months. If you really like this guy, it's worth showing him he can trust you. Otherwise just give it time. If he likes you enough, he will delete Tinder.

[Sebby84]

he's been single a lot longer than and been on tinder for all those years where as i haven't im newly single is it hard to get out of that way of life? Do you think he would still be around if he wasn't into me? How do i show him he can trust me

[Guy13]

Until we are married, yes.

[Sebby84]

Really even if he really likes me hed still be messing about on tinder? Why? Am i wasting my time with this guy would be still be around after 4 months if he seen it going nowhere?

[Guy13]

I really do not know as you are there and know him. Many guys, but not all, like a back-up plan. And some, never settle down. I would not do it is all I can say…

[Sebby84]

You wouldn't still be around if you didn't really like the other person or you wouldn’t be on tinder if you did?

[Guy13]

If I did not see long-term option with you then I would move on.

Once I’ve decide to try with you…Tinder is Done ✅. Last thing I woukd want is me making you insecure.
That’s just how I operate though🤷🏻‍♂️

[Sebby84]

Thanks i just dont know what to think or do now

[Guy13]

It’s tough one. Relationship can be a real pain sometimes

[In_Trance]

Single guys do, just like single girls

[Sebby84]

I haven't i seen this going somewhere and haven't looked elsewhere