Guys, Breaking the single cycle?

[Sebby84]

Is it hard to get out of the single life and tinder scrolling if you've been single for years? I ask because iv been seeing a guy for 4 months all going perfectly as far as i can tell and heading for a relationship affectionate loving guy who contacts me as consistently now as he did in the beginning but iv just found out he's still actively on tinder…. he's been single a lot longer than i have and has been using it for years. Should i be concerned or if youv been single that long do you always keep your options open? Im confused i was married for 4 years so no idea what dating really is these days.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, you should just go for it and dive in.

[Sebby84]

After 4 months would you not feel like you didn't need tinder anymore though im scared im wasting my time now

[Opinion Owner]

No, Tinder is the waste of time.

[Sebby84]

Well thats my thoughts on tinder which is why im really confused that he is still actively on it updating his pics

[bobby_bush_eater]

After 4 months you very well be wasting time if a caring serious person is what you want. If I have tinder and I'm with a girl I normally will delete it in a week. I'd say ask them straight up, but not an ultimatum so that way it's still your decision

[boggboss]

Why wpuld u be concerned sorry

[Sebby84]

That wev been together for 4 months but he's still looking elsewhere actively on tinder am i being taken for a fool i thought we were headed for an official relationship

[boggboss]

If you haven't had the convo about being exclusive he is doing nothing wrong

[Sebby84]

I know he technically isn't but i thought i meant something to him after 4 months

[boggboss]

Nobody said u don't but meaning somthing and being exclusive are not the same if thats what u want ask for it

[Sebby84]

Would u still be seeing a girl after 4 months if you seen no future

[boggboss]

It truly depends some people date for fun others because they are lonely

[SiberFox]

He's not yet assured you'll stay.

[Sebby84]

Its what i hope is the reason