Guys, Has anyone else decided to remain single?

[Anonymous]

This is not a woman hating post.

I just don't want the stress of it anymore. Partners I believe are supposed to support eachother and be a team. And if cannot find that I just prefer to remain single. Anyone else feel that way? If not why do you think relationships are still worth your effort?

[SurMer1805]

Absolutely, I want to be single forever too! I think the main reason is because from my past experiences with girls I came to the conclusion that I will never find a girl that will be 100% devoted to me. I am extremely proud of myself because I respect myself and the people around me, I always tried to give 110% in every single relationship but, at the end of the day, I’ve never felt that I was getting that back. When I’ve been in relationships, every single girl was looking at other guys and they had no problems telling me how cute they are. I mean, for me personally, that’s extremely disgusting and disrespectful. Right now I am working extremely hard to achieve my professional dream and I don’t consider myself being in a relationship ever. Girls will slow me down and I will waste precious time that I can invest in myself to become a better and successful person. I don’t see the point in relationships nowadays as people don’t value relationships. You will probably find people that are tired of sleeping with 100 random people only to make you WORK in order for you to be with them in a relationship when other people had them for absolutely FREE. In my perspective, it’s not worth it, I deserve better.

[BJP21]

Sometimes I get that way, especially when it gets too emotionally draining and the feeling of hopelessness sets in.

[Asker]

I thought that way at one time man. And maybe I get that way every now and then. But generally I feel I'm very happy and peaceful now. Like at no point have I ever been this happy. I feel like I have clarity better than I ever have. Relationships are by nature complicated. All relationships take work. But I think people should add more to your life than drag on it. And anyone who cause more grief than joy to your life you should cut from your life.

[SClassWizzard]

Its not that I wanna remain single, its more a matter of not chasing or putting in the effort anymore to go out there looking and such lol

[scott04sa22]

I just got out a relationship because her family didn’t like me and they refused to make peace. I decided to stay single.

[KrakenAttackin]

I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy, but I don't want anything more.