Why are black guys more gutsy when approaching white women than white guys are?

[Anonymous]

[DoctorSex]

You're really trying to kickup a storm here aren't you! In my mid 20's I was the quintessential Chad. White women loved me, my crowning achievement was when me, "an African" managed to beat a 6'3 tall dark and handsome Spanish man, at getting a 9/10 Spanish girl. I won her because I was a unique fetish to her as she was to me at that point in time.

I think the fetish answer has some validity here. A lot of social pressure isn't present because unconsciously we know we cannot be together. So the conversations are more light and playful in this scenario.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Ghostluck]

Same for me, I get hit on by black women far more often than white women. I'm not sure if it's a fetish thing or not, they never made me feel like it was a fetish, but one thing I can say for sure is that black women are far more upfront and sexual than white women in general. They are far more open about what they want.

[DoctorSex]

@Ghostluck I think your comment adds credence to the fetish angle. White women are far more open sexually with me, the black woman you speak of, I have never experienced.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Ghostluck]

@DoctorSex You just might be on to something there, lol. See, I figured black women were the same with black men as they were with me. I never realized it was different on the other side of the fence. Meh, whatever floats their boats I suppose, heh.

[Ghostluck]

Haha, you haven't met me yet then. Sounds like you are hanging around the wrong white guys.

[Asker]

Probably lol

[CallmeTheKnight]

I'm black and I noticed that over the years. It's more of a fetish to them than romance. I've been approached plenty of times by white women over the years and some were actually interested in me while the rest only saw me as an fetish experience. It's sick honestly

[CALIGVLA]

It depends. Have you ever seen how Asian women get white men's attention? I don't mind having to outcompete other 10 white guys for an Asian girl, but many of us have no enthusiasm to chase white girls. They're just not worth the effort.

[FilmGuy93]

White guys know they can't get away with anything when it comes to white women because y'all automatically assign the worst intention to us whenever you can, so we avoid you out of a desire to stay shit-free.

[Waldoe]

Gutsy? I think they are Crude... but aeveryone has a different opinion

[Asker]

I used a nicer word because I didn't want to be cancelled lol

[Waldoe]

yeah.. it's a scary world...

[DoctorSex]

Ahhh, don't blame the fisherman sir

[Guy13]

Perhaps because the white women give off welcoming vibes to the black guys?

[userxvi]

In my experience a lot of women are afraid of black guys Lol

[Asker]

I agree with that

[DoctorSex]

@userxvi I wouldn't trust what they tell you. Get a drink with them and they're the first ones trying to chatup security at a bar.

[Anonymous]

They have better PR as a result of the internet failing maths.

[msc545]

Black guys are more successful with white women than white guys are.

[Ghostluck]

Honestly, I get hit on by more black girls than I do white ones. Black women seem to love white men and black men seem to love white women. I can't explain this at all, but that is how things seem to be playing out right now.

[Yuuibtony]

It a fetish and I only after white women because I have a sister

[Anonymous]

Most white girls love black guys so will assume the girl will automatically like him.

[icetome]

gotta f that ass lol