I notice white guys don’t really approach girls they find attractive. They just stare at them a lot. Meanwhile black men approach women even if she was 10x out of their league.
Why don’t white guys approach women as much?
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I feel like that's kinda true.
These days it's hard to approach a girl cuz we don't know what is the reaction I'm getting must likely I'm thinking she'll slapping me with sexual harassment or she'll say something like a pervert or something else. And and that's before I even talk maybe most of girls have an idea of we don't talk to u unless we wanna have sex with you. For me similar section happened to me once got me to think 17 times and maybe add couple of prayers before I approach.
Now for some people have no issues with the above they just afraid from the rejection or they don't like to be rejected so now we have this barrier that prevents us from approaching and there's a lot of stuff coming up these days makes us afraid to start the first move. That's from my experience. But can't say much about black men it's a different culture. Maybe they have that racist card the can pull or they don't care about if they get rejected they'll be like this girl is no. Ok next and move on. And also they have the confidant coming from: today she will meet the monster D. Don't know 😶
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White or black, men are the same. You may just appeal to black men and have nothing that a white man wants. I, for one, don't see any reason to approach a woman due to what they have decided that relationships should be like. Nah. Y'all can keep your liberated attitudes.
Hey, that may be a clue.
Black people were once denied the right to vote and other opportunities afforded a white man. The same holds true with women. Maybe this similarity gives them the confidence to approach you while you greedy embracing of these opportunities and the constant demanding to be placed above white men puts you and black men on common ground and makes you more compatible in each other's eyes. Good for you. Good for us too even if you can't see it.
Man have things changed since my dating days.
I am white, and I only like white men to date. I have never has any other color but white that was interested in me.
They weren't shy back in the day. Of course I would send him my flirtatious looks everytime I saw him. Then he would finally ask me out. I'd smile at him a lot so that helped.
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I've found that black guys seem to be more confident when it comes to approaching women. Just my own personal experience.
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Well... Being a white man itself is almost directly a crime these days, and if a woman as much as does not like the presence of a certain white man, she can ruin his life in so many different ways that it's simply not worth the risk for a white man to try and interact with a woman in most cases. For a white man to actually interact with a woman, she'd have to prove her non-hostile attitude towards him, and that's less and less of a simple matter.
For black men, though, I guess they might be the ones to sue the woman for racism if something goes wrong, so they might feel more safe interacting with women. I mean, they do have some aces up their sleeves if a judicial battle breaks out.
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I don't know... I've been approached before by white men, black men, Hispanic, Indian, Asian... I think it's more about the personality of the guy, not the race/ethnicity
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Most of them are either spoken for, too stuck up or aren't interested. Besides, if they want women's lib and equal rights, let THEM come get US!!
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Black guys tend to have a different idea of what is considered attractive to them, Black guys tend to view or this themselves as much more attractive than the rest people/society views them which is why they have more confidence to approach women who are out of their league, it's cause in their minds they think they are in her league when they are not.
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I actually noticed this as well, this is why I have yet to date a white guy.
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Anecdotally, I haven't noticed this has anything to do with race, at least here in the United States of America. So, I can't answer your question, because I haven't noticed this in the first place.
Do you live in the USA?
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You assume that just because someone looks at you they think you are attractive. That's a bad assumption.
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They’re scared. If people would make a effort who they approach. They would have more options. If you sit around and wait. I don’t care if you’re a man or woman you don’t really choose who you want.
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A guess at a contributing factor- millenia of needing more of a -build, store and wait- personality to survive in northern Europe.
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There is no woman out of league. And all men approach women they like.
It's just life, some people are beautiful and find someone objectively ugly while others don't and end with equally attractive people. -
Probably because the mainstream media, politicians’ opinions on social media and “liberal” school teachers taught them to curl up and die.
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I guess because a lot of them just aren't as confident usually.. I guess it also depends on the settings as well.. "Black" dudes will ask anywhere honestly..
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Because if fear of being executed by a MeToo firing squad
Black men don't have that fear because they've spent generations fearing execution at every turn -
Probably all the years of being told that talking to a woman is sexual harassment.
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I have no issue approaching women I find interesting.
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Because white men have been beaten down by media and modern pop culture. And in general they have lost confidence.
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I LITERALLY NEVER DO IT BECAUSE I JUST ASSUME SHE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME
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Tbf I’ve seen plenty of white guys makin moves, so can't really say
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You don't want the answer to that.
If you think about it it's pretty obvious.
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Black men also be out there like
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