He told me in the first date he looks at woman at the gym a lot, red flag?

[Anonymous]

we met at the gym I told him I thought he was attractive and I would look at him from time to time and he said he looks at woman at the from a lot but he didn’t think they like being approached, he said he would “obviously” like to approach but he figured they’d rather be left alone …

[Anonymous]

i always felt awkward talking to girls at the gym even if they were girls i knew and had talked to before , it just never felt entirely right and sometimes would be specific girls i'd look at a lot but not like every girl there , be 1 oe 2 that would drive me a little crazy

[spartan55]

I think he was just talking about approaching women at the gym in general. Don't be so uptight.

[Guy13]

Huge red flag...

[Asker]

If you don’t mind me asking, is it because he admitted it to me on a date or the fact he does it in general

[Guy13]

No problem-but I am not an expert, okay!! It sounds like he is not a guy who is ready to commit. This rings a bell for me as I have a guy friend from beach. He told me, as we were sitting on the beach, I told Ann that I bikini watch (that's what we were doing) so she can't get mad.
--See, I was giving him grief about how Ann will kill you... harassing Clifton like boys do.
This is just my experience but I know nothing of your guy and how you two flow together. This may or may not apply...

[Tamera952]

He is busy masturbating

[Anonymous]

What a lame ass.

[Asker]

What makes it lame? Because he admitted it on a date?

[Opinion Owner]

YES, especially on the first date. Its just a stupid thing to say.

[Asker]

I told him I like to look at guys and their huge biceps at the gym and he looked concerned at least he knows how it feels LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Haha, great reply. High 5.

[In_Trance]

Not a red flag