Im obsessed with him?

[Anonymous]

I want this boy so much it’s like a crush but I can’t stop thinking about him we don’t even talk all we did was kissed 5 months ago and he talked bad about me I just can’t stop thinking about him

[Unknown_Swan_]

You sound quite young from your listed age on here. A good bit of advice I can give you is to perhaps stay away from this guy.

If you kissed 5 months ago, don't even know each other, and he's talked badly about you to other people, then perhaps he's not a nice and genuine guy. I'm not sure what has gone down between you two, if anything at all, but if he's spreading nasty/hurtful rumors about you and he doesn't even know you, then you need to imagine how a relationship with him would work out. It certainly wouldn't be a good long-term emotional nor mental investment to enter into any kind of romantic setting with him. As a matter of fact it'd probably be miserable and damaging to your mental health.

You're young. Feeling infatuation for someone is quite normal, but don't let infatuation blind you to being an object of ridicule to someone you barely know. I'm sorry if my advice seems quite harsh, but it's for your own good. Concentrate on finishing school and finding your feet in life before entering into any 'relationship drama'. Getting involved with the wrong person/people can sometimes stall your life, and take you down a path you really don't want to tread down.

Good luck with everything, and please don't allow yourself to be hurt or manipulated by this guy. You're worth more than that.

[MAC1983]

You are obsessed with a boy you kissed 5 months ago and that talked bad about you?

I think you need some closure. This is not a relationship, just someone you kissed months ago and that lead nowhere.

Talk to him if he's open to it, get whatever answers you need, and move on with your life.

I wish you well! 👍🏻