Am I obsessed with him?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy I've liked for a while and well... he said he liked me but he wasn't ready for a relationship but he said he does like me. I've caught him looking at me from time and time. It went on for a good two weeks. I heard from my friend that he has a girlfriend now, but I'm not completely sure. I don't really see him with any girls at all. Sometimes when I talk to our admin's at school I'll see him looking at me when I'm talking to them. Sometimes I'd also see him looking at me in the gym. But I'm sometimes looking more at him than he is.

[Mr_twoface]

Given that how detailed you are about when he checks you out and "searching" for his girlfriend is signs of being obsessed!

So lets break down what he meant. He said he didn't want a relationship but at the same time indicated he liked you and apparently looks your way from time to time. He know by now that you are into him and is playing a mind game for his own benefit. What he probably meant with uttering those words was that he was open for a "friend with benefit" type of relationship but not committing to one. If you are not into it or emotionally can't handle he has sex with you and then moves on to the next girl, then don't do it! Boys can be very lurky and will imply things to get their way so unless he is willing to be with you exclusively move on.

Always remember, girls/women is the neck of any relationship. Boys/Men are the head. Wherever you twist the neck the head will follow... meaning that if you ignore him completely and don't intentionally look at him and even start paying attention to other boys, he will come crawling back. You be in control than allowing him to have that control over you!

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

So do you like when he stares at you or what? 🤣

[Asker]

I do it gives me a kind of adrenaline I don't know