Toxic guy or not?

Anonymous

These are somethings he did and said on dates

- said will go to a female friends house and sleep on her sofa but she has a boyfriend after our date

- pointed towards a girl who was wearing a crop top and midriff was showing

- lied about my friend being his friend and when i mentioned my friends name, he quickly said oh no we are not friends but i talk to him sometimes. My friend confirmed he doesn't even know this guy.

- always keeps saying he's been "busy" but never tells me anything of what he's doing. And he's not even busy as he's online every 3 mins on social media. Just sometimes im writing my dissertations or the usual "busy". But keeps asking me things like any news?

- said he likes summer because people are brown (im brown) and he winked at me when he said this

- was not listening to me on much on the 2nd date and was getting irritated but kept checking my legs out

- has the habit of staring at chest, ass, legs of women

- i ve caught him meeting other girls at the bar and he makes no mention of them

- kept bumping into him sideways and then looking at the place where we touched

- never texts or messages on his own. never. but has still kept me in his contacts

- disappears for 2-4 weeks and doesn't care

- looks bitter and annoyed after we didn't kiss on the first date and after the 2nd date, stopped seeing me

- literally smells like tobacco all the time as he's a chain smoker and also drinks a lot

- gets jealous if i talk to other guys and stares at me

What is this guy? Is he toxic?

Toxic guy or not?
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