Is he a toxic guy?

[Anonymous]

A guy I'm seeing says he fights a lot with his friends and has had fallen out with several friends, and casusl girlfriends who have unfriended or unfollowed him on social media. Some of his university friends are still friends with each other and they still follow him but he no longer meets them even though they all meet each other. He himself once accidently slipped out that he fights a lot with his friends but quickly said that in a fun way. He has a drinking problem, goes out to drink everyday, sleeps around and is a chain smokerIs he aggressive? Or has anger issues?

[LaNc3L0TT]

"He has a drinking problem, goes out to drink everyday", you have already answered to yourself. I guess due to this behaviour he is having lot of social problems.

[Asker]

But do you think he's toxic?

[LaNc3L0TT]

If you argue with your friends and keep losing them I guess he had some issues and should work on it. If he keeps behaving with his friends like that, imagine how would he act with some new girl in his life.

[spartan55]

You already posted about this clown. He is not someone you want to date, trust me.

[Asker]

Why not. Give reasona

[spartan55]

You already listed them for me in your post.

[Asker]

I want YOUR reasons

[boggboss]

Clearly

[Asker]

Do you think he can love someone?

[boggboss]

Why wouldn't he

[Asker]

Because you said he's clearly toxic?

[boggboss]

Being toxic and being in love are separate things

[Asker]

OK so what do you thinknof him as a boyfriend?

[boggboss]

If he constantly has fights with friends and can't keep them what makes u think having a girlfriend would be different

[Asker]

But he still has many friends and goes out almost everyday to drink?

[boggboss]

Yet is constantly fighting with friends

[Asker]

Yes but still keep in touch with him?

[boggboss]

What's your point its not normal to drink daily or to constantly fight with people again if that's the person u want to be with good for u but if he starts arguing with u a lot don't act surprised

[Asker]

So uou think he's problematic?

[boggboss]

Clearly

[Asker]

What clearly

[boggboss]

Clearly I think he is problematic