Whenever he dosent answer I assume he’s with a girl is this toxic?

[Anonymous]

Whenever the guy I’m dating dosent answer I assume he’s with a girl. I can’t help it? I find it odd when my S/O dosent answer past 10pm is this just me? I sometimes even ask him if he is I just find it suspicious and strange why someone wouldn’t answer? He always answers most the time too so when he dosent it makes me feel confused? I know he’s looked at his phone if he isn’t asleep so I don’t understand?

[chrissykerdock]

you'll never have a good relationship thinking that way... true it may be but you have to have trust or you have nothing and won't have anything... maybe you can talk to someone about this... your distrust... it's actually a phobia and damning.

[Anonymous]

HE’S. NOT. YOUR. EX.
Stitch that into your brain, otherwise every man you ever date will have to pay for what someone else did, whether it’s in the form of your unwarranted insecurities, accusations and etc.

[hbg84]

Its very toxic. It breeds jealousy and resentment. Plus if its past 10pm he could be sleeping

[spartan55]

You aren't maturecl enough to be in a relationship.

[Asker]

But he was meant to come round mine and didn’t even shown which leads me to believe there’s another wiman

[spartan55]

It doesn't mean that at all. What do you mean, 'come around mine'
You probably call and text him constantly and he needs a break. Why are, you together with him if you don't trust him?

[Asker]

As in he was meant to come round my house but didn’t. And I just find it weird he didn’t let me know

[mommymommymommy]

Very, since that would mean guys and girls really can't be "just friends" with the opposite sex

[smashleyy]

codependent and insecure. yes it’s toxic

[Asker]

I was right he was cheating 😭

[Anonymous]

Just spend the night every night