He told me he’d get me flowers next time he saw me but didn’t. He came and brought drinks only for himself (his fav drink) Should I stop seeing him?

[Anonymous]

[20yearsolder]

That is definitely a deal breaker, any man that would do something so heinous as to not bring you flowers should never be spoken to again. I hope you know that I'm being 100% sarcastic. Are you shitting me that you want to dump a dude because he forgot to bring you flowers or he didn't get you your favorite flavor of drink. Wow that's pretty fucking shallow. He should probably dump you

[Guy13]

YOu already know the answer to that question...

[Guy13]

You are bright, intuit, and practical. The writing is on the wall. Sorry !

[Asker]

I don’t. I don’t want to sound like I’m being dramatic. Is this a valid reason to be turned off?

[Guy13]

Yes. You sense selfish when you see selfish. You sense Me. Myself, and I guy when you see it. It is horrible because ONLY his happiness is important. And, you told him plainly what he needed to do and cared NOT to do it. That's your whole life with him. You saw it early... you decision !!!

[Asker]

All of our dates have been what he wanted to do too. He told me about this steak house and goes “we should go next time” and that next time we saw each other we have canned wine... on the beach and I was starving. The last date he goes “let’s go to your pool” even though I really wasn’t excited about that. Then we did dinner after that at a nice restaurant and bill was like $400... BUT he insisted we sit at the bar because his friend is a bartender and could “hook us up with whatever we wanted”

[Guy13]

You know, you have some special qualities that come out even as ANON. Move on to better Stock please...

[Mess96]

Give up on him and find better. And don’t let him fool you, manipulate you or anything

[Mess96]

Thank you for the MHO

[Mess96]

Good luck

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes. I wouldn't be too fussed about the flowers but the drinks was rude.

[Asker]

I agree!! He just brought them for himself and then wanted to have a free pool day at my pool. Disgusting.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yeah screw that. If you're gonna be a bummer and use someone else's property (uninvited it seems), you provide food and drinks.

[elizalikesberies]

He doesn't like you, find someone else

[Plinko]

Probably.