Why are men like this?

[Justneedtokno]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRDfNou8/?k=1

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Lol 😂 I can’t make some of these things up

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This one too www.instagram.com/.../?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

[Lionman95]

Because as girls guys love attention, too but guys love it for what they achieve. So if the girl achieves more than he does he gets jealous.

Imagine a list of activities that you consider as feminine activity and now imagine how would you react if a guy comes around that is better than you in all those activities?

The problem is that he probably meant with a girl that her own together a girl that isn´t clingy and totally dependent on him. When she started talking he got intimated because many guys define themselves by what they achieve and her over-achieving makes him feel look bad since he thinks that compared to her he will always look like her side-kick not like her partner.

So he being frustrated he attacks her to make himself look better in his own eyes.

[Justneedtokno]

I’m glad you explained it this way. But having a car having a house or place to say are supposed to be basic things not an achievement. Now we’re talking about jobs education those are the achievements. You need the job to sustain a certain lifestyle. Or any life. Growing up I was taught that these are basic necessities in life. Not a male attribute not a female attribute.

[Lionman95]

Yes and definitely true. The issue I see is that she has way more than that since she already is a millionaire has several cars and a lot of more money than him. Sure the clip could be exaggerated but it is a situation where the guy feels like he has less than her.
And because of that he attacks and rejects her.

[Justneedtokno]

Although this is just a clip and it is over exaggerated these are things that women face in real life in the dating world we don’t know what you guys want especially when we’re trying to just establish ourselves in the first place. Men think that just having your own means that we don’t need a man which is not true I just know at the end of the day I didn’t want to live on the street or anything

[JDavid25]

I agree with Jamie.. Two different types of man.. One is kind more likely a successful man with high standards who can easily get with women.. The other is a man who maybe has been ran over or controlled in past relationships, or just a redpiller.. LOL..

[Jamie05rhs]

@JDavid25 Thank you for the agreement, but that isn't actually what I meant. Lol.

The first type of man is the one who ascribes to the old-school belief of the man working outside of the home and providing 100% of the income while the woman stays at home and is a housewife.

The second type of man believes in the modern setup of the husband and the wife both working and splitting costs as equal partners.

I have no beef with or hard feelings towards either type. It's just two different ways of doing things. Diversity.

[JDavid25]

@Jamie05rhs Oh yeah, I meant I agreed that they are two different types of guys and gave me own interpretation of what I thought.. I didn't know your further thoughts any further than them being two different types.. Good assessment though.. I can see that..

[JDavid25]

@Jamie05rhs I butchered that paragraph.. LOL.. I agreed that they they are two different types of guys, but I have my own interpretation..

[Jamie05rhs]

@JDavid25 No problem. 👍
And thanks!

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO!.. 😁

[Jamie05rhs]

@JDavid25 Dangit- she gave YOU the MHO. That's f'ed up! 😆

[Justneedtokno]

@Jamie05rhs You never answered my question but you answered my question on this one and I both like your opinion

[Agent_Elflord]

Personally I can’t relate. A lot of the women I’ve been attracted to are in STEM and have higher paying careers or go further in education than I have and I’m perfectly fine with that. I’ve found a nice section of STEM that I enjoy and don’t really need to go further at this time.

[Shamalien]

the guy in the video must be a major simp. There are two big categories of men, those who want a traditional woman and those who want a modern one. The same man wouldn’t go back and forth like this. I like a rad trad who makes just enough but is prepared to quit and raise the babies

[Sixgunsound]

I’ve never heard the term woman with her own bag until just now. I can honestly say I’ve never met a man who expresses those sentiments or flip-flops as much as John Kerry.

[1GoldTwins]

Only the insecure men are like this. Change that insecurity into pride! More financial stability, more safety! Can someone get behind this?

[Jamie05rhs]

You don't understand. Those are TWO DIFFERENT types of men. Not the same guy!

[Justneedtokno]

OK explain because I’ve seen it happen and then was called out for doing too much

[Jamie05rhs]

@Justneedtokno See my comment under @JDavid25.

And what were you called out for? What were they complaining about that you were "doing too much"?

[Justneedtokno]

I noticed

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay

[Jamie05rhs]

So what were those guys complaining about?

[HighValue]

If someone is hypocritical and inconsistent in what they want they will never be satisfied.

[UniquelyBasic]

Well I can't say all men in general are like this but some are.

[NathanDavis]

ah yes... TikTok, the pinnacle of mankind...

[Jackblue]

I don't think I would mind a woman who doesn't work, if I was able to provide for both of us. Or if she wants to work that is fine too. I admit I might feel a bit embarrassed dating a woman who is such a success, I would feel unworthy of her.

[Plinko]

I've never met a man who wanted a 'woman with her own bag'.
It's probably because I live in a smaller town.

[Waldoe]

I've been lucky, I have never met any guys like that

[icetome]

nah nah nah

he is adding things

the podcast men have never said lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Men aren't like that.

[Andres77]

Not all of them

[moonpie89]

Ahhh. Can't stand that

[legalboxers]

when in doubt... ticktok

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol.

[Still-alive]

Lol yeahhh

[Justneedtokno]

Why lol

[Still-alive]

Toxic masculinity is a thing. Its not just some made up ‘woke’ term

[Justneedtokno]

I thought Men didn’t believe in that

[Still-alive]

Most dont but thats just denying reality. Looks like i already got a dislike fir even mentioning it lol

[Justneedtokno]

It doesn’t matter what they think it only matters with the Asker (me) thinks

[msc545]

Women love money more than they love men.

[Justneedtokno]

No we love stability more than we like inconsistency. See man get confuse when women just want to be financially stable or being able to take care of themselves and if you’re going to have children with this person y’all are both secure enough to even have them they are expensive we need the support to even have a child and we want to support you with providing for us as your family.

[Philyouup]

not
all men. just man boys.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣 what happened?

[Opinion Owner]

I can't open this link 🤣

[Justneedtokno]

It’s tic tok

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I too cannot open the link, as TikTok is banned in India.

[Opinion Owner]

I know but link not working on my phone. Lol.

Lol I'm curious what's in video 😜

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Pent up anger