Is he coming off as creepy?

[Anonymous]

So I work with this coworker who is like 20 something years older than me. He's like 45 i think and im 22. He was really nice at first but he's starting to come off as creepy. I used to rant about him about my boyfriend and our relationship problems because he would give me advice. So i told him how my boyfriend and i broke up because he slept with someone else and i didn't think i was good enough in bed for him. He did give me some good advice about the situation but gets shocked because he sees me as innocent and didn;t think i was having intercourse with my boyfriend. He says he never had "it" himself for 3 years and doesn't think women his age are "freaks like that" and wants someone around my age. it sounded really creepy to me.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Creepy is in the eye of the beholder, I guess. A lot of 22 year olds think it's creepy in general that anyone over 30 has any sexual desires.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well maybe what you find creepy is that he is interested in you

[Sarahplus2]

You confided in him and he was probably joking to you but comes off as creepy to you

[Still-alive]

Just tell him you dont appreciate that kind of humor and if he's mature enough he'll respect your wishes

[EndGame55]

If you think he's attractive. Give him some.