How can us girls get you to answer the questions you don’t want to answer?

[Blondemoment]

To avoid negativity you might promise actions to defuse the argument.

Time passes and we finally ask again in the manner you told us in the heat of the moment. You get angry and defensive. How to I avoid that behaviour and get the answer

[EmbraceThePain]

No matter the question, I’m confident I’ll be able to answer any someone I’m in a relationship asks of me. I haven’t had a problem being honest with my intentions, feelings towards people, and other stuff. If a woman is having issues with this towards a partner, I’d tell her to express how important it is for her that she gets the answers to certain questions. Also, being genuine and caring towards his personal space, to allow him to potentially open up in the near future can indeed help facilitate her finding answers to questions she wants the answers to. I think it can be a process sometimes to get someone to open up.

[HonestAssholeJ]

You can't.

We only answer what we want to answer.

Repeatly pressing the button will have undesirable outcomes.

[Blondemoment]

So true man

[Blondemoment]

It is because you know your wrong and don’t want to admit it?

[Anonymous]

Give us an example of a question you asked?

[Blondemoment]

What is on your secret phone

[Opinion Owner]

I see. What is this “secret” phone? A phone besides his main phone that he thinks you don’t know about? This is your boyfriend?

[Blondemoment]

I know about it. But I can’t see what’s on it and he said he would tell me everything but when he showed me the one time I got defensive and angry so now I’m looking for a second chance

[Opinion Owner]

Looking for a second chance to see it? Why would you get mad if he showed you the first time? What was on it?

[AndrésC64]

I guess it depends on the question. You could always sort of casually slip the issue into a conversation and see where it leads.