How could he go to into me wanting a relationship and making effort to not even wanting to be friends over me declining sex?

[Anonymous]

[Gremlinimo]

Immaturity? Only wanting a quick thing cos he doesn't feel he needs to put the effort in?

Welcome to the carousel of disposable relationships. Apologies to you on behalf of all the decent mature men, and those that are at least honest about what they want from the get-go.

It's not you.