Is he playing games?

[Anonymous]

when he spends time with me, he shows interest in my by his words and actions. But when I don't see him, he seems to lose interest in me.

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[ProVox]

If you're sleeping with him, yup, it's games.
If not, well it could be a couple things. He's either playing for the nookie, he's gay, or he's just a cool guy to that may flirt or do shit just to make you feel better about yourself.
Jmo.

[Asker]

We haven't slept together, just kissed and cuddled.

[ProVox]

Then you should be careful.

[Asker]

OK, thanks

[spartan55]

So... be more interesting when you aren't together.

[Asker]

How can I be more interesting 🙁

[spartan55]

Maybe he is losing interest because you haven't put out yet.

[Asker]

Maybe

[spartan55]

How long have been together?

[Asker]

We've known each other a year and been together about a month. But he hardly ever wants to meet up. He makes excuses. I get mixed signals

[spartan55]

Are you waiting until marriage?

[Asker]

No. But I need to know he is serious about me.

[spartan55]

How does he know you are serious about him?

[Asker]

I've told him my feelings

[Claudia__97]

For how long do you guys not see eachother?

[Asker]

We can go a few weeks without seeing each other. I feel he fits me in when he's not busy

[Claudia__97]

I think it too, don’t get attached to him because it seems like a big red flag. He makes time for you only when he wants a girl around but doesn’t have an real interest towards you as a person, get rid of him or use him you too.

[Asker]

Thank you