Opinions Quick guys 👀 for tomorrow. Will a guy thats shy whom is interested me find it werid if I ask for his snap?

[Anonymous]

he's not even approaching me been few weeks 🙄 and We both always maintain eye contact he starts it and he also smiles and maintains it sometimes and helped me with some things.

But he works on the otherside and I don't know how to approach him n ask what if he says “ i dont have it” as an excuse or something 😭 and i dont want to waste more timeee like in the canteen he proper smiled at me like his eyes r to cuz someone alaram went off 😂 i was close to burst out laughing. But i really do want to talk to him and dont even get the chance hence snap be easier to communicate AT LEAST bruh

[wheist9095]

Yeah, you got to take that shot. Ask him if he has snap or if you guys want to trade actual phone numbers and text. Or you can go even farther and see if he wants to grab coffee with you sometime. Coffee date is a nice low pressure kind of thing. It could be that he's just real shy, it could be that he's just real professional and not into you. Yeah take the shot and if he doesn't want to Snapchat or text that's his hint that he's just not that into you

[Asker]

yeah im thinking after a convo ill add him before his supervisor bloody asks why im here 😂 and the signs seems like he interested but what if he gets too shy and says no or dont have it or something and idek what to expect and im scared I don't know if n hiw i should walk up to him n be casual about it 🥺

[Asker]

but if a shy guy is interested would he mind? he would be happy right? I don't know

[wheist9095]

Well the best way to be casual is to not have any expectations. And if it is too shy there's nothing you can do about that, taking the initiative is already doing most of the work. And if he says he doesn't have it, that's why you could also offer to give him your phone number to text and be friends or you could offer to hang out with him at somewhere public and non-romantic.

[wheist9095]

And as a shy guy myself, if a woman walked up to me and asked me if I had Snapchat and if I wanted to talk when we're not at work I would be very happy. Taking the initiative has never been one of my strong suits

[Asker]

Yeah true i guess ill just think of it as casual just so i dont fuck up 😂 or be shyy ikr initiating is doing all the damn work and yeah ill ask do u have snap or whatsapp? Do you think thats good?

Yeah since he's on the otherside at work we can at least message on their and talk mainly because he and i both will quit due to uni this is just a summer job🥲🥲🥲

[wheist9095]

Hey even better, you'll have a relatively normal schedule towards each other and that means you'll be able to actually hang out and go further if things go well. And if they don't fuck it you're in uni it's full of people to meet

[Nathan25]

He will be uncomfortable. A shy guy not being uncomfortable at least once a day is the day cows fly. Don't let it discourage you. He still won't mind even if he is uncomfortable.

[Asker]

how do i make him comfortable then ask 🥲we spoke once damn

[Nathan25]

if you ask him suddenly he might freak out and say no even if he finds you attractive. I've done it. Apologized 5 years later cuz I have anxiety and would feel bad about it every few months. Seriously consider how to not jumpscare him. Use body language and sugegstive words to plant the idea and then ask him assertively. Best you can do

[Asker]

hm i was thinking that to and im so sad and angry we did speak he offered to come help me and then this hoee gal comes n chats yo him walking to the canteem together and she does it with every guy and he wss there alonr when we was scanning out and stared at me but i blanked him naaahhh he can havr that slag she talks to every fuckin guy im done they both can fuck themsleves

[Asker]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😭😭😭

[Nathan25]

you mad at the guy?

[Asker]

I don't know what if he likes her I don't know what to think or feel he asked my name then left his side to come mines took some carts out n all then my mate says he saw her with this sket who chats to every guy n they both walked to the canteen and back wow he didn't with me wow he might like her but when i scanmed out he was staring but fuck it I don't know if im overthinkin what if he likes her I don't know man i domt wana be into it emotionally then find ouut he does or they just casual chat I DONT FUCKIN KNOWWWWWWWWWWW😤😤😤😤😭😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤

[Asker]

no mad at him mad at he might like her and im so invested emotionally ffs

[Nathan25]

I'm sorry you are going through this. It's possible he is interested in both of you. Your intrinsic value is not dependent on whether he finds you attractive. Just be yourself and talk with him and have fun. If he talks to the other girl it has no impact on you frankly. Not until after you hypothetically start dating, but that nothing to worry about right now.

[Asker]

fake mf helps me stares at me a lot smiles and now he doing this walks with that slut to canteen she's a bich runs to every man 🙄 and idek if he likes her but imma iganore him and if he does ask ill say whatever n walk off I dont care i dont want nothin to do with people who fuck with my feelings intentionally or not

[Nathan25]

You seem to take good care avoiding toxic people, it just sounds like the cocnclusion you made about the guy is based off assumptions so be careful

[Asker]

Yeah i guess i am maybe to see to say i like him I don't know he does keep saying my name when i talk to him and he knows i dont even know tje his mate

[Vick2828]

No, he wouldn't. Trust me. Just be cool about it. Just say you are trying to add close people.

[Asker]

Okay yeah hhaha i be having a lowkey panic attack 😭

[Vick2828]

Don't panic lol you will be fine

[Asker]

Omg ☺️u replied good timing he came to me today when he saw me passing by ans said “hey there” must of forgit my name haah 😂 and then he said oh i forgot my gloves its in my car and said to come with him i said yeah okay 👀 omggg was happy lowkey haha 😂 and we spoke a lot havin a laugh and he's shoxked i live at uni n he goes any noise come from room j said yeah music 😂 nuin else I don't know if he's flirtin or wahh. then he asked for my last name I don't know why because i never been asked that before I don't know if he tryna searxh i didn't ask back thoo and yeh are things good tho 🤔

[Guy13]

No. Go for it ‼️

[Asker]

Fr because he doesn't seem to approach even tho he giving the signs yh and its annoyin and my first time acc approaching so im shi scared 😭 what if he says he dont hqvw it