Why would a dumper try to make dumpee jealous?

[Anonymous]

They’ve been in no contact for 45 days.

[JPresidente]

Because some people can’t get over it or accept it and feel like they have to get back at the person that dumped them. It’s a pride thing.

[FilmGuy93]

Insecurity is a powerful demon. It makes people do all kinds of insane stuff

[Asker]

Why would be insecure simce he dumped me?

[Asker]

Since*

[FilmGuy93]

I’m afraid that I wouldn’t know. Maybe he felt that you weren’t valuing him enough in the relationship and wants to see that you miss him.

[Asker]

In the beginning I was trying to get him back. After it didn't work I went into no contact.

[FilmGuy93]

A suprising number of questions can be answered with the statement "some people suck."

[maximumpower]

Nothing about jealousy here - except on your part.
Its been 45 days. He's obviously moved on.
You should too.

[darline19]

he has Narcissistic personality disorder

[Asker]

Do you think the dumper wants them back?

[darline19]

no, the dumper just want to keep torturing the dumpee

[Wise4myage]

He gets off on it?

[Asker]

In what way?

[Wise4myage]

He thinks he can get inside her head and bother her.

[Asker]

Maybe now that she hasn’t reached out to him at all maybe be wants reaction out of her..

[Wise4myage]

Exactly.

[Asker]

So he wants her back?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe, go find out.

[Asker]

No I won’t reach out to him lol

[Wise4myage]

Time to move on.

[Asker]

by the way do you work for GaG? Just an honest question..

[Wise4myage]

No, what makes you think that?

[Asker]

You spend too much time here :D almost like you get paid for giving opinions… I was just curious.

[Wise4myage]

I’d love to get paid, lol.