If you try to talk to a guy who has shown no signs of interest will he be rude?

[Anonymous]

Or give you a chance and get to know you.

[DS_Madking]

what girls dont understand is we live in complete diffrent worlds there are 3 outcomes st hell accept. 2nd he has a girlfriend and there's a little possibility hell be rude if he is really pissed that day the worst thing he can say is fuck off i have a girlfriend but helll not be pissed because of you or outcome 3 is him politely rejecting you but a guy beeing rude for no reason when u ask him out is nearly impossible but ofc he can be a asshole too i can just speak for me and the majority of men i know

[Asker]

This is basically what happened: I saw him look to the side and at me when I looked at him, but he barely noticed me after that.

And once I looked at him and he looked confused and away.

But if I count the number of times i looked at/for him and the number of times he didn't - I looked at/for him way more

[DS_Madking]

first of all guys are good at that shit u dont notice when he looks exept he wants u to we look away at the slightest head movements also we are dense mf u could propose to him and he wouldn't know what u mean when a girl looks at me i for myself search a mirror asap too look whats wrong if he's confused he thinks of whats wrong or his thought process is "why does she look back? does she maybe like me? naw there's probaly something behind me or on mefor sure maybe she noticed me looking damn why am i still looking?

[Asker]

No I looked at him many times, I couldn't see him. Plus he didn't try to be around me either.

I don't know what do you think?

If he was shy he'd still try to be around me or in my eyesight, he wasn't.

[DS_Madking]

naw if he's shy he wants to avoid conversation cuz beeing shy isn't beeing scared of conversation or people its when u dont know what to say so u rather avoid talking even if u want too I've been trough that shit and as said if he looks and doesent want u too know u dont find out

[Asker]

Hmmm what would you do if you were me?

[DS_Madking]

i would make my intentions clear and ask him out be straight up with ur feelings so he won't missunderstand but say it the right way but use the word intrested if u dont know him well it makes u look more confident but ur a girl u can also just say jo come lets go on a date and you'll have a 99% succes rate

[Asker]

I have a question if a guy keeps playing/fiddling with his hair does that mean he's shy?

[DS_Madking]

yeah also looking around all the time, biting nails, shaking legs, avoiding contact and loosing the ability to speak above the level of an kindergardener

[Asker]

But he wasn't playing with his hair while talking to me just in general I noticed he kept playing with his hair

[DS_Madking]

stress or sumething boredom is a reason too ever heard about how boys bump empty wather bottles at their head or a remote.. yeah that are not jokes boredom makes annything possible

[Guy13]

50/50 and one never knows until one does it. have had both experiences occur... especially if they have a boyfriend and I did not know !!!