He changed his dating app photo/bio after our date but like me and wants to see me again. Red flag?

[Anonymous]

I really liked him so I haven’t even been matching other guys or talking to them because i am excited about him, however i suppose he must not feel the same if he’s tweaking his account? does he likely think our date didn’t go as well as I thought or he thinks I’m keeping my options open so he’s doing the same?

[Guy13]

It is an inconsistency, however, a red flag assumption is a question from one who has already decided the answer? Why don't you ask him or comment on his change?

[Asker]

I mean I posted a pic in a LA lakers T-shirt (I told him on our date I love basketball/the lakers) and he told me he likes formula 1 racing. After I posted my photo he changed his bio to “formula one on the weekends?” Am I overthinking this or maybe he thinks I’m trying to reel in guys by posting a photo in a basketball T-shirt. Apparently his ex was very toxic so he has some difficulties with trust.

[Guy13]

You are basing a whole lot of Something upon Nothing to me... T-shirts and Formula One? Have you even met?

[Asker]

Yes of course we went on a date he told me he really liked my vibe and we planned another date

[Asker]

My bad it just seems he thinks I’m trying to reel in guys by posting about my interest so he’s posting about his

[Guy13]

Creating issues... go on a date in person and then consider this stuff. Could be wasting bunch of energy for no reason... who really knows until person-person happens :-)

[DannyUk2017]

Nothing wrong with "re-freshing" the picture/bio, etc... is good for people to keep them in loop with all sorts of "you", might get tired of same Profile/picture... I do that all the time...😉

[TroyDT]

Sounds like you've only been on one date. He might like you but why shut everything down after just one date?

[spartan55]

Nothing like assuming you know what he thinks. 👍

[Asker]

I mean I posted a pic in a LA lakers T-shirt (I told him on our date I love basketball/the lakers) and he told me he likes formula 1 racing. After I posted my photo he changed his bio to “formula one on the weekends?” Am I overthinking this or maybe he thinks I’m trying to reel in guys by posting a photo in a basketball T-shirt. Apparently his ex was very toxic so he has some difficulties with trust

[spartan55]

Trying to reel in guys wearing a Lakers t-shirt? Wtf where do you girls come up with this shit?
This may surprise you, but every little thing he says and does is not about you.
Some further advice: don't form opinions about anything based on what you see on social media. It's a false reality.

[Asker]

Okay so maybe he just tweaked his profile because he knows it’s early days with me and felt like changing it up a bit. Perhaps he does like me like he says and it was a coincidence that I noticed he changed it not longer after I posted a photo.

[spartan55]

Ya, it likely was a coincidence. You could clear the whole thing up and just ask him, but you won't.