Why don’t girls reply to my DMs?

[Anonymous]

I might send a pretty girl in my area a nice simple message.
It will never get read nor replied. Why is that?

I feel like it’s because I’m a different race to them me not extremely attractive. If I was extremely attractive I feel I’d make easy progress

It’s because you’re not that attractive

It’s because girls want to meet a guy in person

It’s because girls find it creepy

All the above

Other

[Sheriblossom]

Where are the girls from? If they don't live in your city/ town, talking to them isn't going to get anywhere.

Also ask yourself why you are DMing them. Is it just because they're pretty and stuff and other superficial reasons? Or do you have reasons to genuinely like them and get to know them. What are you looking for from a girl? Another important part of that is what you can offer them. Looks aren't everything, but looks, confidence, personality, and hobbies together is what makes you who you are.

What are you saying in your texts? "Hey wyd?" is very bland. From my experience it's basic girls who go for that type of stuff lol. Also don't try to hard and be too nice. Find a balance.

It does work for some guys to just DM a girl and suddenly she's into him. But if you've tried the suggestions and it doesn't work then you should try building some familiarity in person and have conversation before trying to text.

[ochitougly]

They don’t know you and also you say you are not attractive. Why should they answer? Maybe try having a conversation with them on the app first and if you have chemistry talking to them they are more likely to respond on insta. Unfortunately apps for are purely visual you could also upgrade your pics and get a make over maybe?

[Guy13]

Did they DM you first? Were you Invited or Entitled? Time is Money... GO MAKE SOME then get back to them ;-)

[Avicenna]

Attractive women get lots of random DMs from guys. What makes you think they'd answer them?

[Avicenna]

You will pretty much always have better luck approaching women IRL- at least you'll get a convo if you approach them respectfully and confidently.

[Asker]

Is it to do with my looks. I thought I look good and am intelligent

[Avicenna]

Here's the thing- no one is attractive to every woman and attractiveness is composed of more than just looks.

[Autember]

Okay, was this on a dating app? Was she specifically seeking out that sort of attention? If not, then don't sweat it. It's not about you. She just isn't interesting in talking to a random person.

If this is on a dating app then maybe she just hasn't seen the message yet. Either way, plenty If girls out there. Just let this one go.

[Sour-rose]

If you say a one word greeting or a basic one, you probably gonna get ignored. Or you're in the sea of thousand other mofos who try to say the same thing you do. Aaand it's a literal sea.

[sheikalana]

All of the above and maybe they're already taken.

[Zolly99999]

Pretty girls get bombarded with DM's.. it either takes them a long time to answer or they gave up and won't answer anyone..

[Anonymous]

Because women use those apps to get attention and stroke their egos and unless the guy is a 10 she only wants the attention of having a shit ton of guys wanting her.

[Nadim171]

Try getting rich or powerful, it works. Even if you're unattractive.

[Asker]

I do have money that I do show a bit. Like I drive a new model Mercedes

[Nadim171]

Well, don't text strangers. Go drive that thing around in town, fix your appearance and little bit and you might have better luck.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Thats what girls are online

[Lilita15]

Sometimes we're just not interested.

[Asker]

True but I take their instagrams from tinder and message them on insta. As they most likely don’t looks t it

[In_Trance]

All of the above