Is a personal trainer unprofessional if he tells me “I would love to give you a one on one😉😏” after I enquired?

[Anonymous]

[WindAtMyBack]

It's has double meaning. The emojis make it clear which way he means it. So the double meaning was intentional.

Yes, it's VERY unprofessional. If you knew each other well and he "tested the waters" in a more subtle way, it might not be quite so bad. But the way he did it is just crude and unprofessional.

[JPresidente]

It depends on the context. If it was just for work that you were discussing and he assumed something else, then it's possible he crossed a line but there would need to be more evidence he's unprofessional. If you initiated it to mean something else and he is just responding on a personal level, then no lines were crossed.

[spartan55]

You already know the answer to this. And know that he is using that same slimy pickup line on every girl he trains.

[Asker]

I think because I told him I only want five sessions as I’m moving out of town he thinks it’s a free for all cause I won’t be his client for long because he was very professional until I said I only want four weeks as I’m leaving soon but kind of put me off

[spartan55]

Yeah, trainers are notorious shitbags, they are up there with bartenders.

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t even know how that’s okay. Like because he’s conveniently attractive and he’s okay to just hit on potential clients because they’re young and female and probably not hideous looking. Something tells me he’s not gonna keep that job for long. Wait till he tries it on someone that cares enough to complain

[spartan55]

It's okay because they pick up women at a ridiculous rate. And we all know how women love shitbags.

[Asker]

Nah surely any respectable woman would be disgusted especially at his place of work if he can’t even respect that how do we expect him to respect us 🙄😳🥴

[spartan55]

Then how do you explain those guys getting almost non-stop ass?

[John_Doesnt]

No, it means he wants to show you The Rococo Bang.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBMTgjGl_KE&ab_channel=FrankK

[globetrotter22]

Did he text you that with emojis and all? Or did he say that too you verbally? His intent can vary drastically depending on his tone and mannerisms.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Did he send the emojis or are those your additions?

[Asker]

Nope emoji included if it wasn’t for his choice of emoji’s i wouldn’t have thought a thing on it

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Oh. Yeah. The emojis make it super unprofessional.

[20yearsolder]

No I think he's trying to get you to buy private lessons

[maximumpower]

yep.
find another trainer.
apparently this has worked for him in the past.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds pretty unprofessional, yeah

[Iron_Man]

That is a one on one when he trains you

[In_Trance]

Depends if you want to rail him or not

[Zolly99999]

Yes very unprofessional

[Synikal]

No. He may want to review your habits.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[dudeinohio]

Definitely

[Snedger____]

Run.

[GingerSpice2000]

Yes absolutely!

[Asker]

I think because I told him I only want five sessions as I’m moving out of town he thinks it’s a free for all cause I won’t be his client for long but kind of put me off

[GingerSpice2000]

If he used the emojis with the messages he's at it. Any decent professional PT absolutely would not behave like that. Avoid that PT.