My coworker is jealous or a moron?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend work together

But we never talk about us as a couple, dont want people to gossip, act totally normal and professional

My boyfriend was sick and stayed home today, he hates doctors

And one coworker started to talk about how sad it is he is sick, he needs a good doctor.. And the goes:

" he needs a woman with money, do you know any woman with money?"

... I thought in my head what in the fuck and answered him:"Im poor... and only know poor people"

• Why he said it to me?

[DavidRaul]

I would have ripped his head lol for questioning my ability to take care of my SO when she's sick. He doesn't have a sense of maturity. You have an incompetent man in your workplace

[Asker]

Oficially he doesn't even know im his girlfriend
I didn't want to go on o him
Because it would mean im protecting my boyfriend and justifying myself
He is piece of shit
Why would i give him any explanation
Know what i mean
But what a dick
He is old and ugly bold fuck🤢🤮im 35 my boyfriend 44 and he is 54...

[Asker]

Also he trying to sygfest i look old
We have a new painting of a woman in the resat office area
He said :"what a pretty lady, you wish you looked liked her
Maybe 20 years ago you looked like her"
I mean... what is his problem

[DavidRaul]

I didn't meant you need to justify. But you can't let anyone bully you. How can he make silly jokes on you being old. You should report him to HR. He must sexualize everything in office

[Asker]

Am i being sexualized?
I said
Know whats your problem Mark? You really think you are funny
He said that i have no sense of humour and too serious

[DavidRaul]

I was asking if he sexualized everything and make a joke of it. If he did , report him to HR

[spartan55]

Who cares why he asked? I don't understand why you think he is jealous?

[Asker]

Why he says this bullshit to me
He knows we date wtf

[spartan55]

What do you mean wtf?
"we never talk about us as a couple"... don't want people to gossip etc

[Asker]

I mean he suspects it... right? because why the need to tell me this comment
He didn't say this comment to other girl
He said it to Me
Since he smells smth, right? what is other reason
I hate it

[spartan55]

Why he suspect anything? It was probably just a random stupid comment that you are reading way too much into.

[spartan55]

Doesn't matter that he didn't say it to the other girl. That means nothing.

[spartan55]

You hate it? Little dramatic don't you think? Just ignore the dude.

[Guy13]

C: All the Above…. Moron predominant though…

[Asker]

He knows 2 days ago we had a dinner
Why say it to me? obvi im hid shy tell me about other womn?

[Guy13]

https://youtu.be/S4AmLcBLZWY

[Guy13]

It is what it is. Let it Be ‼️