I’m jealous of my coworker… ?

[Anonymous]

I recently got ghosted and rejected by a guy I thought I would end up with… he ended up treating me indifferently, developed a wondering eye and I just ended up feeling extremely insecure in which I already was

my coworker is lighter, thinner and prettier… and I just think wow if he saw her he would enter a relationship with her..

I find it hard to speak to her or look at her. Sometimes I do give short answers or unfriendly looks. I don’t mean to

I always hear negative comments about my looks and I’m compared to others

I've never really liked the way I looked and felt of lesser value because of it. Treated like it too

Deep down I know he can do better.

[HollyK21]

I feel like I may already know who this is (the poster, of course) and if it’s who I think you are then I hope you’re doing okay. As for the woman, it’s pointless to compare yourself to others and allow that to effect your self esteem. Build yourself up to become a woman you can be proud of.

[catsmemoir]

Unfortunately men will overlook you if a prettier option is sexually available. But the jokes on them because she'll probably treat him like shit, cheat on him and leave him. Then he'll be in GAG complaining about how hypergamous and awful women are. Circle of life 🤷

[HelpfulWoman]

Go for therapy. That's very cringey to think and absolutely dumb to project onto her how you view yourself.

[HelpfulWoman]

yup. because that response be showing you're apparently as pretty on the inside as well as outside...

[Asker]

Oh I didn’t know