We're playing an internet game with my boyfriend. Despite the fact that we won, he called me stupid while we were playing. What should I do?

[chaey0]

We're playing an internet game with my boyfriend. Despite the fact that we won, he called me stupid while we were playing and told me to stop playing. I was afraid when he told me those things. He enjoys playing video games, and he has a quick temper. What should i do? Should i let him do that with that behavior?

[Anonymous]

1st) You cannot accept that.
- Why? Because it leads to a unsustainable relationship
- It diminishes your self-image

2nd) Don't retaliate!
- Why? 2 wrongs don't make a right. You don't beat hate with hate. And you certainly don't beat ignorance with more ignorance.

3rd) So what do you do?
- Answer: Look you may just be dating casual or serious I don't know but you want to set up a joint vision. A vision is how you want your life and or relationship to be EXACTLY.
- Why do this? Because without a vision you two will never be on the same page if only by pure luck.
- You will notice in order to accomplish this vision or maintain it there must be certain personality traits displayed habitually by both parties. I can list the traits if you're actually interested in these ideas. Without that you both will always fracture from time to time and find yourself on different teams. Most people don't survive such things.

4th) What happened is NOT harmless though it may appear and even come from a place that is harmless. You may not understand fully but take my word for it.

gl

[Anonymous]

Bad players in team games assign responsibility for failure to others and victory to themselves.

Well, bad people really.

It is very common but not at all ok.

You should have a zero tolerance policy on this, either straight up leave him right now or make it perfectly clear you aren't going to tolerate that shit.

You should stop playing the game for the remainder of the match in protest, if he stops playing games with you all together then leave the guy completely.

[Guy13]

That was not bright. One never calls the girl they are dating stupid because that makes him even more stupid. He sounds a little immature ‼️
Congratulations on the Victory 🥳. Did he by chance say I’m sorry or something about it ⁉️

[DarkWinterNights]

He’s a gamer so he’s used to raging at randos online but you need to stand up for yourself. He has no right to talk to you like that and you shouldn’t play with him again until he apologizes and promises to treat you better.

[20yearsolder]

The same thing you should do anytime someone calls you stupid. Tell him to go fuck himself. Just because he's your boyfriend doesn't give him the right to speak to you that way.

[JPresidente]

This could be a sign he has other problems. I would tell him you don’t appreciate him talking to you like that and you want an apology. You also want him to never talk like that to you again. You deserve respect.

[RealMarek]

I advise not putting up with it. You shouldn’t be treated that way so don’t let it become a lifelong pattern.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think he's being a poor gamer and he's being greedy he wants to win all the games you can sure do better is how I feel about things.

[Staximus]

Get rid of that piece of shit. Tell him to grow the fuck up and stop acting like a stupid child. Adults don't insult you and get mad about a stupid video game.

[FunkyMonkee]

Invite him to eat you out and, when he does, pee in his mouth.

[ArtemisSilver]

Make him play stardew valley with you as chill out and punishment lol

[Anonymous]

Taunt him during the game unmetcifully. At least that's what I'd do.

[Anonymous]

wow you really are sinking to the bottom of the barrel with a nerd gamer. find yourself a real man not a boy

[Anonymous]

tell him he's a dumb fuck lard for calling u stupid over that shitty game

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

2 wrongs don't make a right. It's 100% a losing game. And super immature.

[Opinion Owner]

Excuse you, im not talking to your crusty little corny ass

[Nikki1989]

You shouldn't put up with insults.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Filthy casual gamers. They loose manners

[KennethNoisewater]

Quit being stupid.