I'm still in the chatting stage with this guy and at one point he said he's only talking to me coz I'm cute. Another time I tried being funny and he said, "you're only getting away with this coz you're cute." He makes me feel like I'm diminished to just looks, he's 29, I"m 26.
Why continue talking to him when he has no interest in you other than your looks? Do you think that’s an ideal partner to grow with? When you are pregnant in the future? When you grow older? If you ever get an injury? You think he’s going to stick around?
Since it's on chat, I wasn't sure if he was joking and I didn't wanna overreact. He but when I change my dp, he immediately gives me heart kissing emojis, and if I remove my dp he gives me those sad face emojis and keeps asking me why I removed it. If I tell him I'm in the middle of something, he asks me to confide in him altho I don't feel comfortable.
So I haven't started thinking about anything long term at all, I'm not sure what I feel about this guy.
He has asked me out, but all of this is before the first date itself. Today is like the 3rd day I'm talking, and he seems to be chatting non-stop. He asked if I'd consider him as marriage material.
I'm not even sure how to let this guy go without upsetting him. He decided to call me at one point and we spoke for 2 hours. At the end of the conversation, I realised we didn't have a lot in common, at one point I was giving one-worded answers and I later said something like "I don't find a lot of things in common between us." But he goes "but we just spoke for 2hours straight, if you aren't interested, why did you mislead me."
He's telling, point blank, that you're boring and your personality sucks, and probably because he's good looking, you tolerate it anyway, proving him correct and justifying his insults towards you. If the guy was less attractive to you, you wouldn't put up with it. So in a way, he's right.
This is by far the most ridiculous thing I've heard about this. You don't even know the conversation and you just assume certain things about me. I legit just started talking to the guy, and fyi I personally only find him average looking but I was willing to talk to him before deciding.
He chats with me way past his so-called bedtime, so no I don't think my "personality sucks" according to him.
@kylee2437 Thank you so much girl!
@kylee2437
I said that he said that he thinks you're boring and have no personality because he said "I'm only talking to you because you're cute." She's the one sticking by him in the first place despite that. I know you're not used to being responsible for your own life and problems and everything, but as a "strong independent woman" you can't do whatever you want with autonomy and then blaming someone else when it doesn't go your way. And this isn't the first time you've done this, too. I'm not your simp, your boyfriend, or your paypig, so I'll gladly tell you to grow the fuck up, little girl. I have a low tolerance for stupidity or entitled comments.
@Asker
If he is telling you "I'm only talking to you because you're cute," then what else do you think that would mean? I'm sorry I didn't wipe your ass for you and emotionally validate you, but if you want to stick with a guy who isn't interested in you, don't whine and complain later when he cheats on you/dumps you. Unless you're an unreliable narrator or making this all up, you are his side chick.
@Mcheetah I would never want you to be my boyfriend because in every single scenario you make women the root issue even if the man has obvious issues in the situation at hand. If you look at my personal comment, I actually put blame on her for still talking to this fuck boy, BUT my point for tagging you is she can be a great woman but his objective is still to just fuck. That’s not a her issue , that is a hun issue and I dislike that you constantly make women the root of the problem.
@kylee2437
I don't "constantly make women seem like the issue." I point blank said, if he's telling you looks are all that matter to him and you still tolerate it and put it with it, then that becomes a you problem, not him. The guy could be the biggest asshole on the planet, but if he's charming or cute enough, women will stick with him because "that's confident" or "that's badass" or whatever the case may be. Go back and read it again, since you seem to have a problem with that. If the guy is an asshole and verbally states as such and you STICK WITH HIM, then yes, that is 100% on you and I'm not "sexist" for pointing out the stupidity there. And IF you stick with an asshole after all that, then yes, what he's saying has to be justified at a certain point.
@Mcheetah who on gods green earth says she’s staying with him though? She wanted input on how she feels because sometimes our feelings need confirmation. They are literally in the talking stage. You are still shoving blame on her, when maybe she just needed confirmation that he’s an asshole and she should move on. Also side note, your original comment is you being an asshole.
@mcheetah
Nice try. Everything is wrong with your argument.
-Firstly, I'm not his "side chick" as he already started asking if I would consider marrying him and consider him as marriage material- so if anything he doesn't know if he's my "side d*ck"
-Secondly, I just started talking to the guy, so unless you can't read, I'm not "sticking by him." I'm just not sure if he was joking as it was on text.
-Thirdly, you don't know a single thing about @kylee2437 and proceeded to call her an immature little girl- she could be earning more than you for all you know. Again the assumption that you could be her "paypig" lol. You seem like an insecure dude who has been rejected a lot by women.
Love how that we're in our mid-20s and still have a mature/sound arguments than you who's 35. Grow tf up.
@kylee2437
She asked this fucking question and said "is it weird?", instead of dumping him. There's your answer. And like I said, I'm no your simp or boyfriend, so I give zero fucks if you don't "like" my response and you're not used to a guy licking your asshole and telling you it's chocolate, like you're probably used to in life. At worse, you're going to call me "a sexist" for speaking the truth, and then think I'm supposed to give a flying fuck what some rando on GAG thinks of me for that? Yeah, you must have a small country of men kissing your ass in real life if you're this triggered by a guy not agreeing with you.
I said what I had to say. Bitch about it some more, or move on. If I'm "such an asshole" to you, then I guess I must be doing something right, since women like this kinda shit, apparently. You're still talking to me. So what does that say about you, huh? No go blame something else in your life on anyone but yourself because you lack accountability to take care of your own shit. I'll be waiting for your next excuse.
@Mcheetah you’re the typical douche bag that has a lot to say but has a “idgaf” the worst type of guy. If you don’t want feedback on your horrible advice, shut the fuck up. You plain and simple have a problem with me because I stick up for other people on GAG against your toxic dumpster fire “advice” where you just look to spew hate on women that come here for advice even if they aren’t at fault in the situation. She asked for advice so she can put into consideration that he isn’t a good pick. No she doesn’t have to dump him right away before getting advice. You are an animal. I don’t want you as a boyfriend and I don’t want you as a dump either, you would provide absolutely nothing , however I’m going to stick up and be loud when you choose to be an asshole to people for no reason. I won’t shut up because you want me to.
@kylee2437
Still fuckin talking to me, even though I'm an "asshole." I guess assholes are worth the time and investment, huh? And no, you're a fucking idiot who's never had a man tell you no before. Your own narcissitic as fuck avatar and bad tattoos could tell me that about you without you typing a single thing.
What's your next excuse?
@Mcheetah lmfao I’m not talking to you because you are worth it, I’m tagging you to speak up about how your advice is shit and she shouldn’t listen to your advice because it’s not of value. And 😂😂😂 I just walked away from an abusive relationship where he told me no one too many times. And I’m a narcissist for being me? Idc if my tattoos are bad to you, they aren’t for you 😂 typical narcissist pointing out peoples looks but is using a fucking cartoon as his avatar while shit talking people all day long
@kylee2437
And you STILL think I'm supposed to give a fuck about your retarded opinions of me? Even after all this?
@mcheetah the funny thing is, is you still looked past the fact that I didn’t comment for you, I commented for her to not listen to you trying to Diminish her personality while trying to give her advice. Your advice is not real advice, it’s you trying to belittle a woman because you had opportunity to
@kylee2437
The only reason I'm still talking to you is because you think you're cute.
@mcheetah You legit just lost the argument when you realised he asked me to marry him, and he thinks I'm using him for sex and not the other way around lol. Did you really think only men are capable of using women? haha
Fyi, I earn more than the guy and all I'm worried about now is how I say no to the guy without upsetting him. He seems to be really upset whenever I hint that I want to end this, and since I'm a human who cares about other people's feelings, I wanna let him down easy.
I love how you immediately stopped responding to me after you realised you lost the argument and diverted your energy to putting down @kylee2437 instead.
Haha, again, nice try, you are clearly reading everything as you just responded back to every single one of the comments I made except the one which had strong arguments on why your assumptions were all wrong.
You just couldn't argue back after finding you couldn't blame me and lost your argument.
Sorry, but I remember reading somewhere that you were rejected by a lot of girls in the past and that's why you're so harsh on women, so jokes on you.
Yeah I’m ngl that’s kinda off…does he seem actually interested in what you have to say or does he seem like he’s only after sex?
Na he talks about marrying me.
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He sounds really weird to me, it's one thing to say I find you cute and another to say "you're only getting away because you're cute."
Taking yourself WAY too seriously.
Way too old lol... you just revealed how stupid you are. "I don't know the conversation" wtf does that even mean? I know what YOU wrote about the conversation, so if I don't get it then blame your own shitty writing skills... and of course all this tough talk is coming from a trailer park pink anon...
@spartan55 she’s allowed to take his back handed compliments as offensive when they are back handed compliments.
It's really up to me on whether or not I take it as a compliment LOL
Umm, you do realise I'm the one asking the question right? @mrisha didn't write anything on the convo.
I'm obviously not gonna explain everything from scratch, but you just assumed things from nothing. Also @Mrisha probs said you're way too old for GAG because you wouldn't know our generation enough to give advice. Tbh not quite sure why you're on GAG myself, and commenting on people's posts who are half your age.
@spartan55 maybe start giving good advice instead of trashing others and I wouldn’t be around 😊
@spartan55 you not trusting someone’s word but also trying to give advice and telling her she’s overreacting for how she feels , is actually toxic. She’s not uptight, you are just an abusive person.
@kylee2437
Hyperbole Kylee is back. How many misapplied psych buzzwords can you throw in your last response? And of course you are putting words in my mouth AGAIN. Is this how you always debate? Shift blame? Speak for others? Flat out make shit up? Toxic and abusive because I don't agree with you... 😂 You're a joke
@spartan55 telling a person they are overreacting when they are expressing their feelings is literally an abuse tactic. You are actually shifting blame on her by saying that her thoughts are not reasonable. What proves you are toxic and disgusting is you are trying to dismiss @Mrisha because he is sticking up for her against your Bs reply. Your advice is you making shit up because you want to degrade others instead of being open minded
Seems like a dick
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