Ever realize you pay too much attention to people?

[Anonymous]

I think I've come to the realization that i focus too much on others and what theyre doing. I need to maybe focus more on me and doing what i need to be doing.

Because i focus too much on others and want to depend on everyone else like coworkers bosses etc.

Its like i always get let down and disappointed. Its prob cause i start of by putting faith and hope in people that theyre gonna be my savior in some way and rescue me... Its exhausting. The peole who seemed so good turned out to be horrible.

[blondegrrl]

Ask yourself why you feel the need to depend on other people and put so much faith on them to save you. I think people will start to notice that about you and get overwhelmed bc everyone has problems in their life and it's rare to find people who are selfless and actually want to help you these days.

Try to work on being more independent and depending on yourself. Spend time alone or go out and meet new people or go into new situations that support you being independent.

[sheikalana]

I'm definitely a people's watcher.