Which of these Guys is less likely to Cheat do you think?

[Anonymous]

A Confident Guy.

A Shy Guy.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for a SHY GUY I say he is less likely to cheat because he’s looking for his special someone & when he finds her or she finds him he’s going to treasure her & wouldn’t risk losing her.

As for a CONFIDENT GUY in his mind he can get any girl he wants & it wouldn’t surprise me if he’s fucking everything under the sun because he thinks he could get away with it.

[magiusX26]

neither is more likely nor less likely. every person has a different personality, morals, ethics, quirks, good behaviours and bad behaviours. no one trait (beyond seeing them cheat before) will indicate who will or won't cheat in the future.

[RosieMelts]

It’s not about confidence.

It’s about what a person *wants.*

And for one, that means how much *ambition* they have to get that

And for the other, it means

how *desperate* they are to get that.

For some of the time ‘want’ can be directly linked with ‘moral compass’- a sense of what’s wrong and what’s right,

and determining what ‘wanting good’ looks like.

[Asker]

If it's not about Confidence then why are most Women known for going for the Confident Guy instead of the Shy Guy then?

It is not about Confidence for a lot of Guys, But you cannot say it isn't about Confidence for most Girls.

[RosieMelts]

I guess you’re right- when I had wrote my comment, a woman or anything feminine never entered my mind. I should switch our person with guy (s) because it’s usually them that do any kind of pursuing in a relationship and also the question above mentioned guys so I figured for other readers that would be slightly obvious about who I was referring to.

I like to call guys people because saying guys is just sometimes alienating on certain topics or some type of bashful event. I’m not bashing anyone by the way. This question mentioning guys seemed like a good one to respond emphasizing them as people without any real misunderstanding.

Hopefully now my previous comment seems a little clearer, not just to you, but other readers who may have felt the same way and your comment helped address their confusion/ problem.

Thanks 🤝

[RosieMelts]

by the way your second question that was a reply was a lot different from your original question.

Things vary but as far as men go and cheating probability I can assure you: that alone doesn’t have anything to do with confidence directly

Confidence for a male only determines what females he may attempt to cheat with in specifics and spectrum

Confidence can also be a factor about which women would be willing to cheat with him. It’s a plumage or a rack of antlers and some women will be subdued and others will not depending on the type.

If you want to write another question on preferences etc. I won’t stop you and that’s certainly a way to go.

[Asker]

Don't you think it is more likely for someone who flirts and talks to a lot of People is more likely to Cheat than someone who doesn't talk that much?

[RosieMelts]

No I don’t think so. My uncle doesn’t talk to a lot of women; he’s somewhat shy and he took a trip to Las Vegas or some island alone, and cheated on his wife (later apologized).

My dad speaks to many women and has been in multiple relationships before having met my mom and he has never once cheated on my mom with any lady. He’s not the deceitful type either, aside from him being my dad- so I know he’s never done anything and would bet my life on it.

Maybe the confidence means just being comfortable and desensitized while the shyness makes it intriguing and an adrenaline rush for a bored guy who wants a certain something. Can def be vice versa as well.

It may not even be a confidence matter it may be whether or not a man believes in love or not. If he doesn’t he may see no reason why he can’t otherwise have sex with multiple women, confident or not, and he may therefore get around to being with multiple women because he wouldn’t see it as cheating and think his wife is the crazy one for believing multiple dates is considered cheating. For any reason at all he may continue his affairs and keep it from his wife just so he can keep her too.

[RosieMelts]

I really am no expert on the matter- that’s just my train of reason.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Any guy can cheat... Even ugly ones.. When they get a girl they'll start thinking they're hot shit and pursue other women

[Dazzler1983]

The confident guy. Because he's so sure he will get away with it.

[Anonymous]

Lol @ women logic.

[JosyJosy]

In my eyes it's even.

[Anonymous]

Both are probably going to cheat