Who do you think cheats more in a relationship?

[blunty]

As far as I heard, women cheat as and even more often than men but hide it well so in most situations husbands do not find out? Do you agree or is this not related to gender, just their personality?

[3hundred]

First off, it's crucial to acknowledge that cheating isn't confined to a single gender. Both men and women cheat, and the reasons behind it can be complex and varied. It's less about gender and more about individual circumstances, personality traits, and relationship dynamics.

Some say men cheat more, citing reasons like seeking physical satisfaction, while others argue that women might cheat just as often but perhaps for emotional connection or to fill a void in their relationship.

Emotional affairs, sexting, or even maintaining active dating profiles can all fall under the umbrella of infidelity, depending on who you ask.

So, the answer of your question.. It's a question with no clear winner (or loser, depending on how you look at it).

[Finchie40]

From my experiences and what I have witnessed , women do , but I know there are a lot of guys’ that cheat as well , but from my experiences women take the lead , mainly because I have been cheated on before by a few girls , and I have been the other guy more than a handful of times , Girls’ just cover it up better than guys’ tend to do Most girls’ can be sneaky and try to be sneaky , and I have witnessed some things with girls’ , that completely shocked the shit out of me , once I found out the truth , things that I have never witnessed a guy doing , Pretty much my reason as to why I don’t rush into relationships with girls’ anymore , Most females have a selfish mindset , that think grass is greener on the other side , most females are very vulnerable when things aren’t going her way in her current relationship, she will latch onto another guy hoping he will save her instead of trying to fix what is broken in her current relationship , because most females are weak and scared to be alone. Again I am not saying every girl does this, but from my experiences they definitely take the lead of being unfaithful. When I was having sex with married women and having sex with girls’ that were already in a relationship , of course they lied to me and told me they were single , but when I found out the truth that she wasn’t single , I asked her why she cheated on her partner with me? and they all said because he treats her like shit and made every excuse in the book as to why she did it , sadly most girls feel they were put on Earth to be catered to , most females’ ’ feel they should be treated like Princesses at all times that barely have to lift a finger what so ever , If her man falls short of treating her that way , she will latch on to another guy thinking this other guy is going to treat her better. Most females are drawn to a guys status , a guy that she feels is well put together , A guy that other people look up to , Most females become vulnerable to men like this. She feels he will love her the way that she deserves and that her boyfriend or husband is just a POS. That doesn’t acknowledge her feelings. If a guy cheats on a girl , it’s mainly because the sex has faded in his relationship with her , most guys that cheat still feel love for their wives , they just aren’t being sexually fulfilled by their wives or girlfriends, A guy cheats mainly for lust , a girl cheats mainly looking for love in most cases. Most females will listen to their toxic girlfriends advice as well , a girlfriend that is jealous of her having a loving caring man that she doesn’t have , that toxic girlfriend will try to pull her away from her man to bring her down to her level of hating all men. But the second that toxic girlfriend meets a man , she kicks that girlfriend to the side leaving her with nothing. Most girls’ are very vicious with each other , why most girls’ really can’t be friends with each other , because most females thrive off of drama , I can’t tell you how many times when I was in a relationship with a girl and her so called best friends were trying To hook up with me behind her back , I know guys’ have friends that do this as well , but a guy will keep those friends away from his girlfriend as much as possible , and pretty much end his friendships with those friends to keep them away from his girlfriend, but most girls ‘ keep those friends like they are the best thing that ever happened to her. Not realizing those friends are toxic. I have witnessed and experienced this unfold before my eyes plenty of times. Why couples should never prioritize their friends over their partner period , if they want their relationship to last and for love to grow between each other , your friends should never come before. Your partner , because your friends can easily back stab you without you being aware. I have knocked out a few so called friends that tried getting with my girl behind my back , they are no longer my friends. A partner that loves you and values you will tell you the truth about what your so called friends are doing behind your back. I confessed to my one girlfriend that her so called friend tried having me meet her at a hotel , if I didn’t care for my girlfriend and l didn't love my girlfriend , I wouldn’t of told her and probably went to that hotel. Sadly this is how people are and why this world is so fucked up , I blame social media for a lot of it

[ProbablyClueless]

Women definitely cheat more. Or at least, they're more likely to play with fire because she'll genuinely think she's not doing anything wrong.

The big difference between women and men is that women are way more likely to believe the lies they tell themselves. If a woman can come up with a way to justify her behavior, even if she knows it's wrong, she'll do the whole "well it's not REALLY cheating. because..." thing.

[dustybiker2]

My neighbor tells her boyfriend she goes to the gym after work. First it was an hour and now it's 3 1/2. She's getting a workout by many dif men. They used to come to the house when the boyfriend worked nights. Kids and grandma sleeping there too. Gender doesn't discriminate a person whom gives themselves permission to cheat.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Getting my popcorn ready for this one okay... women are about to say men and men are about to say women, right? Because we seem to demonise the sex we're attracted to as much as we lust for them. They're an unachievable mystery that we date and crave and hate and observe. Our own gender is never in the wrong, right? No. The other gender must be at fault.

Let's all just try to see this rationally, guys 🙂

[Billlewis]

I don't think there's any doubt that women cheat much more than guys, simply because they have so many more opportunities to do so. I'm also a firm believer that when a woman engages in an extramarital/outside sexual relationship, it's much more likely to benefit her main relationship than when a guy cheats.

[SolitarySolace]

Women cheat more. They cheat both physically and emotionally. They do it out of spite, out of anger at their current partner, out of boredom, out of just feeling unwanted when they’re actually not. Men just cheat for sex which isn’t worth it in the end. Temporary pleasure? What’s the point of that if women can gain all the power through it over the man who wanted to fuck for pleasure?

[JacobJordan]

Men cheat physically women cheat emotionally. Either way both are shitty for cheating but of the two it is worse when women do it. As for who does it more men. Men have an easier time rationalizing it the first time women don't

[Lvl5rook]

No it’s actually the opposite. Women cheat physically and men emotionally, since physical intimacy is the main thing men seek in a relationship. See sex differences in jealousy by David buss.

[JacobJordan]

@Lvl5rook women have to be emotionally attracted to people. Men have to be physically attracted to people. Men can sleep with a woman and feel nothing for her. Women have to feel something before she can sleep with a guy.

[Lvl5rook]

Correct. And therefore the men women hook up with will be higher value than the men she marries, which is why that is a red flag for men. If they know she’s impulsive like that she is likely to cheat or get bored

[Ironic_Method]

I think women cheat more simply because it's easier for them to find someone to cheat with. Given the equal opportunity to cheat, I think men would do it far more.

[Yannae]

It's not related to gender but to the individual and their morals. I get attention from women but I ignore it because I know what baddie is waiting for me at home, and I think cheating is one of the lowest things you can do.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely, positively, women cheat far more.

People who research polls will state otherwise but women have bizarre beliefs about whether their behavior is cheating or not.

[WhitneySnow]

I think guys are more likely to cheat but some girls cheat if they feel like their needs are not being met

[Nikki1989]

Here we go. Men will say women, women will say men. There is no 100% accurate answer, just biased opinions.

[JayBones]

If you ever worked in the nursing and or restaurant business you would know it's women by a land slide.

[Slapmynuts]

I'm going to say in these times it's 50/50! Morals are a thing of the past!

[EmmaMary]

Both can be as bad as each other.

[jackinoff]

Both cheat equally

[elizamichale1]

I think its equal

[laly520]

a cheater

[sheikalana]

Honestly, women.

[RainBat]

Goblins.

[austinbooth]

Men for sure