I can't date a girl who slept with a lot of dudes, can someone change my mind? Or are you the same? (please please please read the full description)?

ImJustCurious13
I can't date a girl who slept with a lot of dudes, can someone change my mind? Or are you the same? (please please please read the full description)?
I'm a virgin and never dated before, and not looking to date for a while. But I've got this thing I can't exactly explain towards women who slept with a bunch of dudes that makes me sick to my stomach (please keep reading). When I do start dating, I'd prefer to be in a relationship with another virgin or at least someone who slept with no more than 2 or 3 different guys. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who had sex with over 5 different guys, I just can't. Whenever I think this way, I tend to think I'm being narcissistic, insecure, and setting my standards too high. I try to be more open to it, BUT I JUST CAN'T FUCKING DO IT! The reason I think this way is because I (personally) tend to think women who slept around a lot are a lot are most likely to cheat. I'm not that stupid, it was actually scientifically proven that people with more sexual experience are more likely to cheat. If I were dating someone who slept with a lot of other dudes before me, I'd be too worried that she might think that one or some of the other guys are better than me and might consider going back to them or her old sex lifestyle behind my back. Also, I'd think she might have that Barney Stinson "bang'em then forget'em" attitude. Plus, I tend to think women who slept with little to no people are cleaner, but thats an arguable statement. But these are worries I just can't have on my shoulders and I'd have to call it off with her. I'd feel very horrible and narcissistic about it, but I just can't have it and I have to put myself first at those times. OK my space limit is running out, so I'll finish. This isn't hate against women who did sleep around a lot. This is just me trying to see what other people think and maybe someone will come with a very valid point that will change my mind, but I doubt it. Or if other people think the same way an it turns out I'm not the only one who thinks this way.
I can't date a girl who slept with a lot of dudes, can someone change my mind? Or are you the same? (please please please read the full description)?
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