nothing wrong with you being a genuine guy & not a nasty player,
lot genuine guys do think of that at your age specially if a virgin, you have notice part of the fear is from you being a virgin & thinking they have the exp, I agree with how nasty when sleep around, but sometimes nice girls get used a lot, remember a player will lie ass off & act right way till gets what wants, so if by chance has been with mayb 3-4 by your age is poss just been used, if been more you have look past that if they have changed & smarter & a nice girl, no human is perfect, what you want to look for is that takes relationship serious, only flirts with you, did she want serious before & just taken advantage of, also don't look at them as a object which is what doing when think only of how many been with, because that's how make them feel, you need to look at real her,
all the players interested in is getting what want so see as object,
is no real fear to have of being a virgin, its always about being able talk honestly to each other that the real difference,
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This is a genuine concern of yours. And no you are not narcissistic. Your standards are not too high or impossible. This is just an excuse by those who can't do with cheating others.
I think this way too. And to be sure I avoid girls popular among males too much. They think it is alright but it is not
I had a friend recently go throug a similar internal struggle. I asked a series of questions.
Whats wrong with enjoying casual sex while single? Enjoying casual sex doesn't diminish the sexual experience when its with someone you love. Or what if they simply have had multiple dedicated relationships? Would you judge someone for having sex when they're in a mutually exclusive relationship? Whats the difference of sitting on 50 different dicks vs the same dick 50 times? Nothing. Would you want them to judge you for maybe sexting, masturbating or watching porn? Would you want them to judge you for having no experience?
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Who cares if she sucks your dick then never talks to you again?
That’s most girls though, a girl who isn’t a ho is extremely rare to find
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