My boyfriend doewnt want to live with me?

[Anonymous]

We date since may 2021 and we work together on the same project, i stay at his house once in a week

He said he wants his own space and times for himself

Said living together is too hard

He had very bad experience for 20 years before me

[Ga-girl]

Have you tried talking to him about it? Of so what did he say? Is it the past that's keeping him from his future?

[Asker]

He said he doesn't want to live for another persona
He soent too many years following this woman who finally got him in jail
Now he doesn't want to live with any woman

[Ga-girl]

Ok so trust issues that's huge. Try asking what would change his mind or what would make him more comfortable with you

[Asker]

He says he is comfortsble
And there is nothing in me he doesn't like
But i dont feel happy
He is weird

[Nobileosun_9534]

If even girl want her time and space so why can't a boy? Maybe you should understand him and give him space it will be good for your relationship.

[Asker]

I give him space

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

To live in relationship and yet remain independent, that is what courage is

[Asker]

I dont understand