Why do he always come back when he sees me going out having fun and happy without him even though he's the one who left me without any explanation?

[Anonymous]

Please i need an answer😂

[_kxn02_]

He comes back because he sees just how good you are without him. Some guys tend to think the our lives revolve around them. Not all guys are like that though. Definitely just keep doing you. The best revenge is being able to show that person that life is way better without them. If he left that’s his loss and now he’s regretting it.

[melanieeeB]

Like someone already said, he sees you're happy without him and he wanna destroy it lol
You need to ignore him and keep going on and be happy

[Asker]

I try not to reply to his messages but when i don't reply he starts texting me saying why aren't u replying and stuff like that

[melanieeeB]

I personally would just directly tell him that you don't wanna talk and then block him, that way he can't reach out to you anymore

[Anonymous]

I don't know , and Idc.. i felt so proud of myself when he came back, then it was my turn to hurt him back.

[Asker]

I want to hurt him back but I don't know howww

[Opinion Owner]

let him waiting for your reply, always reply late, be passive, do it repeatedly.. and when you get bored., it's time for you to write how sad you were and curse him.

[Anonymous]

He can’t let go.

[Asker]

And why is that? Why in ur opinion guys can't let go of someone they left without even an explanation

[Opinion Owner]

Did he dump you?

[Asker]

Yeah he told me he loves me then all of a sudden the next 2 days he stopped texting me or he just replied to my message with barely 1 word and stopped giving me any attention then we stopped talking and his excuse was i not feeling well

[Opinion Owner]

He regrets that.

[Asker]

And after me not chasing him he stated texting me saying he wants to fix it and i agreed to him and then he did it again after 3 days maybe

[Asker]

And this story have been going for almost 1 year and a half and he still texts me till now every time in a while

[Asker]

And do you u think i should keep replying to him?

[Opinion Owner]

No, let it go