Sounds like he does care for you, but, big BUT, wants to know what else is out there, sometimes when people know they have a sure thing it gives them room to wonder a bit. And college and going to new places also makes people wonder what they are missing out on. Do you guys have a shot of getting back together? Of coarse, right circumstances, time, you guys mature... but a lot of that has a lot to do with how good the relationship was before. You need to be honest with yourself and evaluate how good the relationship really was. Is he gonna find what you two had out there? Good relationships are so very rare today, people always regret when they realize that. Only you know this answer. But you need to not cut contact with him but move on. Move on in the sense you are happy, you are going to go have fun and do new things. And keep contact to a minimum. If he says hi or messages you say hi back but only briefly. He has to know that he lost the option of having his cake and eating it too.
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he needs some time? for what?
It seems that you're dealing with someone doesn't realize the value of your relationship.
I understand that you loved him, but if you really loved yourself you won't spend a moment with someone feel confuse about your existing in his life.
you should worry about your feelings more than waiting for someone doesn't know what do you mean to him.
He sounds so confused, maybe you're better off without him in this frame of mind, he either met someone or he has something else going on with himself, you can't fix what he's broken, i doubt he'll come back and if i were you and he DID come back i would be the one refusing to take him back, it's cruel what he did to you learn a hard and bitter lesson from this, give yourself time to heal and move on with your life.
Heartbreaks are so horrible. But you can appreciate that he was completely honest at this moment. It's possible to love people, but not be in love with them. And I believe that's the case here. You're still young, and one day you will find your Prince Charming! I wish you the best of luck!
He is probably confused about what he wants but sounds like he wants to explore. Just let him go. I know it hurts now but you'll be okay. Don't expect him to come back. I know that is not what you wanted to hear.
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Well firstly, there is an explanation and it could be based on several things.
1. Going out with another girl.
2. Want to have sex with another one.
3. Doesn't like your character or appereance.
4. Just want to have some fun with others girls, without hurting you.
My advice is to do not try to beg him, or cry
accept his decision if he loves you, he will look up for you.
Good luck!sweety, dont believe what he said while breaking up with you. whatever he said or however sad he cried, he still chose to leave you. because there's more in the world, more sedcutions, more girls, he wants them more than you!!! stop contacing him if you want him back, focus on yourself and your life. trust me, if he wants to come back, he will. but maybe at that time, you have found someone better. give yourself a chance. he is not worthyour effort. move on!! thats the best for you now!!!
He has grown out of you or is interested in something his friends have he doesn't (party girl, wild girl, lesbians ect) and has overlooked how valuable you are. Or he is no longer attracted to you
He wants to expirement with other people and not be commited socearly into his life. He is fearful that he will go deeper with you and then realize he wants more freedom for a few years.
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Call/Whatsapp +2349058764985You're being unreasonably biased, you aren't telling the whole story and chances are you've done something to hurt him. by the looks of it you're a horribly clingy girlfriend who drove him away with your own desperation. he can do so much better than you.
I very highly doubt that he will come back.
Yes, he might come back to you. There is a chance.
Expect the worse!
Just get over it. Not worth crying over
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